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Gir1337
October 16th, 2010, 01:03 PM
We'll, I'm going out with this girl, we reallly like each other, we'd easily be together for 1-2 years . The only problem is that she's shy and doesn't come up to me and talk. And she wants me to come talk to her like at lunch and in our spanish class. The thing is I don't know what to talk about. It'd be awkward to go over there, hug her, and keep my hands in my pockets the whole time and say nothing good, if you know what I mean. :SSSSS
Aves
October 17th, 2010, 12:31 AM
Just talk. Bout anything. If she really likes you, what you talk about isn't the most important part. Just talking is.
gots.it.fresh
October 17th, 2010, 01:44 AM
i used to be like that, but if you can say that you guys are really good for each other and can be together for a while, then there shouldnt be anything wrong with just talkking. you can tal about nothing or somthing stupid but the fact that is your talking to your girl and thats what she always want. and you should always go to your girl and talk to her, but not to mucht then she'll think your clingy but dont like not talk to her or not go up to her bcuz she didnt go up to you first.
she wont care if the conversations are akward, she just wants to talk and eventually it will get more comferable and things will be fine.
Chris_Likes_Drums
October 17th, 2010, 02:29 AM
sometimes dont have to talk to her alone but if she hangs with her own friends, you could just go nd hold her hand and talk to her friends with her.... I do that cause gets a bit of a convo going then it slowly becoms less people and just you two talking :) Also if you meet up alon after school then you'll end up talking about something and so you then should be able to at school after that :) Hope this helps :)
josh93
October 17th, 2010, 08:27 PM
you just can sit with her and make her feel good. Without talking about anything.
usernamelol
October 17th, 2010, 11:55 PM
just chill out with her. talk to her about school stuff until you know eachother better to have deeper convos.
Art_dude
October 18th, 2010, 03:51 PM
yea just talk about basic school stuff. What's going on with her friends? your friends? Tell her something funny that might've happened to you that day. Talk about family, and work your way up to more serious topics.
Fact
October 18th, 2010, 04:11 PM
what they said ^^^
from experience, talking about anything is better than nothing (:
topic of conversation isn't the most important thing.
make her laugh if you can :D
good luck!
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