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Mysterious Skin
October 15th, 2010, 09:33 PM
I Get Homophobic bullying at school, I dont Tell anyone that i actually am gay but people presume i am. What Can i do to make it stop. I just want it to go away.
Vonn
October 15th, 2010, 09:36 PM
Tell your parents. Tell a teacher. Tell your principal. Stick with your friends. Act like you don't give a shit. Give those homophobes the finger.
Numerous ways, really.
Mysterious Skin
October 15th, 2010, 09:38 PM
Tried All That, Apart from Parents (Anti Gay) No-one really gives a Sh*T
Vonn
October 15th, 2010, 09:42 PM
I meant tell them about the bullying, not your sexuality, but okay.
If any adult at your school knows you're being bullied and they aren't doing anything about it, then that needs to be dealt with.
Tell your parents about the bullying. Will they give a shit?
jrl719
October 15th, 2010, 10:50 PM
Dude, your parents love you no matter what, you have to tell them sometime, and for the bullies, I have the same problem, I got WICKED depressed. Tell your guidance counselor, your principal, that's illegal now, and you shouldn't have to put up with that shit, because it can get ALOT worse trust me. You need to tell them ASAP, because that can get dangerous. I promise, if you go back to them, talk in a serious, but not rude tone, say 'This is whats happening, I want it to stop.' Obviously explain what's going on. They have to help, its the law now.
TaylorLestrangeNee
October 16th, 2010, 07:06 PM
Dude, your parents love you no matter what, you have to tell them sometime, and for the bullies, I have the same problem, I got WICKED depressed. Tell your guidance counselor, your principal, that's illegal now, and you shouldn't have to put up with that shit, because it can get ALOT worse trust me. You need to tell them ASAP, because that can get dangerous. I promise, if you go back to them, talk in a serious, but not rude tone, say 'This is whats happening, I want it to stop.' Obviously explain what's going on. They have to help, its the law now.
They have to help you, doesn't mean the kids doing it will stop. Maybe not in school. But you're not always in school. Like, not meaning to be critical, but I've dealt with this too, in high school, I told my principal, and I got beat to sht for narking. Yaknow? Just because it's law to help, doesn't mean it will help.
ChristianaValle
October 17th, 2010, 01:31 PM
The school has to do something about it. Its part of their safety plan.
If they a dont, maybe try a new school?
TaylorLestrangeNee
October 17th, 2010, 05:14 PM
They have to do something about it yes, but that doesn't mean the bullying will stop. You have to figure out a way around it? I guess. Having a different sexuality, it's going to be harder, Yaknow? But just fight through, (Not realistically, I mean) I mean, don't give in to them. In the end, you'll be the stronger person, you'll be better.
Homophobics, they won't get far. Watch them fall.
mranderson
October 17th, 2010, 06:17 PM
Sue the school, yes you can, if you are being bullied and they are not protecting u, you can sue them and the school will lose tons of money
TaylorLestrangeNee
October 17th, 2010, 06:25 PM
Yes. Because suing them will solve your problems?
PoseidonX43
October 27th, 2010, 04:28 PM
report it to the school if that does not work then,file a complaint with the police because its a Federal Offence to bully. if yall had not found out yet.
Ricardo
October 27th, 2010, 10:14 PM
Sorry to hear that.. Just keep to yourself and try to avoid the bulllies.
Bullies are real you know whats.
aussiecasper
October 27th, 2010, 11:56 PM
ya, any adult at your school will do. schools usually have zero tolerence for this kind of thing. i know at my school just saying "this is gay" can get you jug or detention or calling someone a "fag" is the same thing. and when bulling is involved or even suspected they investigate it and its almost an certain expolsion if they get caught. so just try talking to a dean or counseler. they will handle it more descretly and effectivley.
Wings of Despair
November 17th, 2010, 04:52 PM
People that are stupid and don't understand what being gay is will always do this.If you respect yourself fight for your feelings and don't get down because of some retards;)
Tristin.
November 17th, 2010, 04:55 PM
i myself am gay, but never had any trouyble with that sort of thing at school
i suppose its because of the school i go to
just be yourself and dont let them get you down, you are you and if somebody doesnt like it fuck them :)
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