I love him, but he abuses me.

[ChristianaValle]

So, my name is Christiana,
and I live in Utah and I am in love with a guy that lives in Florida, if youre not used to the United States map, they are pretty much across the States from eachother. I have loved him for a really long time and we have had our ups and our downs,but Im not sure if how he shows he loves me is the 'right' or healthy way.

He tells me he loves me, but only after I send him pictures of myself naked.
When he asks me to do it I tell him how much i HATE it, but he just doesnt seem to care. He threatens to never talk to me again, and that it one thing that I dont think I can handle, I love him too much to not talk to him again..
Is this abuse?
Can anyone help me out here?
:what:


Signed,
Confused, Loving, Christiana.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Doooood you can't put up with that shit. Its bad to be sexting he could share that with kids. Tell him that its your body and you dont want too.

[Clawhammer]

Lass, he ain't worth the dirt you walk on. Maybe you love something about him, but if he only loves seeing you naked, he'll get bored and it'll hurt later all the more. My advice, get rid of him and change the locks, and don't look back.

[Fiction]

Yeah this is abuse. You never know where those pictures might end up. I siggest you stop talking to him.

[ChristianaValle]

Thank you. :l
I talked with him last night and I told him the only way I will be with him anymore is if he can love me without seeing me naked.. I will still send photos to him, I just wont be exposed. He told me "I will have to think about it" and then he hung up on me.

I really hope I am strong enough to deal without him, I have been doing this for him for way to long.

[closed]

I'm really glad you stopped it. you can find better guys, that will really love you for what you are and not just for your looks & body.
If you ever find need to talk about anything contact me :) we will solve it together :D

[Fiction]

We are all here to talk to if you ever need someone to talk to. You can VM or email me at any time :)

[ChristianaValle]

Thank you all for helping me out.
We still havent talked or anything.. Im really going to miss him, but its just not worth it.
If he wants me for me, I will always be waiting for him. :/

but, thank you for listening to me.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Find someone closer to home, so you won't have to worry when you show him your body.

[Love.Hate]

He should love you for you, not your body.
so well done for saying that too him and i hope things work out,
you deserve better.
:)

[karl]

Dump him, he's not worth it and he's nowhere good enough for you!!!

[SaraBerry]

I wouldn't call it "abuse", but I think he's just talking to you for the pictures. You should seriously get rid of him.

[ShaneK]

Your best shot of him, its obvious it didn't love you. Ya deserve someone who really loves you for who you are, not for pictures.

[georgiamay]

please don't bump old threads. :locked: