Bicurious? Bisexual? or Just plain curious?

[smalltowngirl9189]

I admit to getting turned on by girls (I am a female), but I'm not sure if I should completly admit it. Me and my friend use to finger each other for fun, and shes now bisexual. I really like her and I've told her and ever since she's never shown any intrest in me sexually and I really wouldn't mind coming completely out of the closet but I don't know if I should her and only one other girl turn me on.... Any Advice??:what:

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[Musicality]

You pretty much answered your own answer, hun.

"I admit to getting turned on by girls" is the first thing you said. You're bisexual, simple as that (Well, I shouldn't say 'simple as that', but you're definately part of our community!).

As to whether or not you should come out of the closet, that's really a personal thing. You need to ask yourself some questions:

A) Will my family and friends react negatively?
B) If they do act negatively, will I let that change who I am?
C) Am I ready to face the homophobia of modern society?

If you can honestly answer these questions (and there are questions that go much, much deeper that you should ask yourself), and you honestly feel as if you can stay strong against the way the rest of the world sees you, then go for it and come out of the closet.

[mmmark1985]

Its up to u if u want to come out but think whats gonna feel right. Im not coming out but I dont really feel like I have to.

[smalltowngirl9189]

You pretty much answered your own answer, hun.

"I admit to getting turned on by girls" is the first thing you said. You're bisexual, simple as that (Well, I shouldn't say 'simple as that', but you're definately part of our community!).

As to whether or not you should come out of the closet, that's really a personal thing. You need to ask yourself some questions:

A) Will my family and friends react negatively?
B) If they do act negatively, will I let that change who I am?
C) Am I ready to face the homophobia of modern society?

If you can honestly answer these questions (and there are questions that go much, much deeper that you should ask yourself), and you honestly feel as if you can stay strong against the way the rest of the world sees you, then go for it and come out of the closet.


Thank you :) I'm in middle school though so I think my friends & family will freak!

[jet7up]

@smalltowngirl9189
Sometimes I have got the same feelings as you
I would like to finger a girl (just for fun :D ) I suppose it will be a nice experience / I don't know what to say :P

[smalltowngirl9189]

Yeah, but my friend has moved away :(

I know plenty of guys.. not enough girls...

[jet7up]

@smalltowngirl9189
I sent you an e-mail on your yahoo account

[smalltowngirl9189]

yeah i finally got it today ill reply

[Donkey]

Hi Teri, why the rush to label yourself? What good will be achieved by slapping a sexuality on your forehead? I can only think of bad unfortunately. Be relaxed, let things come as they come - there's no need to rush into labeling yourself.

Your sexual feelings could change a lot as you develop from puberty anyway, with less strong sexual urges from hormones possibly stopping so much attraction the same sex. But even if you are bisexual, or decide you are bisexual later on in life there is nothing wrong with that - in fact it just means you have more choice.

Have fun, don't stress over things that don't matter :P

[Vkid]

only come out if it's safe for you to do so, and when ur ready, not cuz u feel u have to or shud

[smalltowngirl9189]

Thanks guys!