Should i come out

[josh93]

I havent told my family that iam bisexual or my freinds. Only one freind at school knows iam bi and i know he is to but he moved over the summer and now no one at school knows iam bi so i dont have no one to talk to about being bi. But if i due come out and tell my family and mabey my friends how should i tell them. I been thinking of telling them but it just seems like if i do they will not like it.

[smalltowngirl9189]

I don't know, I'm in the same boat!

[nick]

Its up to you as to whether you feel anyone needs to know at all and, if so, when to tell them. I took the decision a while ago not to come out at school but to wait for a fresh start with new friends when I move on to university. If I was in a position where I was dating a guy that would change, that would give me the motivation to feel it was worth the risk of coming out, but that hasnt happened for me yet.

[josh93]

Okay. Beacause iam just scared if i come out to my parents they would not like me being BI.

[TheAppleGeek]

i would start with the people ur more comfortable with. the work your way to the more difficult people to talk to.

I would tell my friends then my family

[coleman8r 77]

dude your mom and will love you no matter what thay might not know what to say at first but thay still love you

[LoginLeo]

DON'T TELL!!!!
What people don't know - cannot hurt them.
I thought i was gay. Came out to my best friends. to my sister. i was 100% sure. And i am no more. so...
DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!

[IMonfire]

I'm on the same boat as yours. I'm afraid to tell my mum and dad that I'm bi. My dad and uncles will kill me! Plus, I'm living on a country where being bi and gay isn't acceptable. :(

But I think, there comes a time that you will have the guts to tell them.

[Harley Quinn]

You're parents should accept it and if they don't they will in time, i know that isn't something you really wanna hear but in the long run they will be okay with it - if they won't already be that is. Don't come out unless you are ready to, don't feel like you have to because you don't. It's your life, not theirs so make the best choice for you. I wish you luck if you do come out though, it's a brave thing to do. When you do come out make sure it's to people that you can personally trust, and who would be there for you if needed help.

[josh93]

Its hard and i know it will take time for my family and friends to get use to the truth when and if i do come out but i will soon not now but when i do feel like it will be fine.

[NitoJuanito]

its up to you, i told my closest frens and ill tell my relatives wen im out of their house, that way they can't disown me
they dont like bis or gays