Boners around girlfriend+friends?

[Jon-27]

I know this is probably asked a lot but I need some help with it. I just got a new girlfriend and whenever we hold hands or hug or anything, I either get a semi or a raging erection. :(

It's kind of embarassing, I can use my school jumper to hide it but it's bad when I have just a shirt on, or someone spots it.

Does anyone have any tips on how to solve this? :(

[Harley Quinn]

Just let it happen, nothing you can really do apart from not causing a fuss by it. Most people are used to guys getting boners so it not going to be a shock, and the more attention you bring to yourself because of it, the more people will notice. It's hormones, if it bothers you that much, think of something that turns you off that way you can get it down :P

[Jon-27]

Okay, I thought so, already tried to ask my dad for help.

Thanks :)

[Apollo.]

Its fine that this happens just let it its normal

[Jon-27]

Is there any way I can explain it to my gf? I'm her first boyfriend and it might seem a bit weird to her. :/

[Harley Quinn]

Just say that you're sexually attracted to her at times, though she probably already knows its what happens to guys so it's not going to be something that really shocks her. Talk to her about how she feels when it happens to you, ect ect and you should be okay :)

[Jon-27]

Orite, sounds good. I expect her friend (one of my best friends) and her actually talk about this stuff all the time, they say they do, so maybe she understands. It's kinda embarassing with 15ish people around you though :S

[Harley Quinn]

It can be, i wouldn't really know what it's like because i don't hang around with guys, but ever girl, i can guarantee you talks about that sorta stuff on a daily basis. It's not something that unexpected so i wouldn't really worry about it too much, it's totally normal.

[Jon-27]

Alright, thanks for the advice! :D

[Harley Quinn]

No problem, it's what i'm here for :)

[Rayquaza]

Ooh i get that aswell...i use my blazer to cover em up

[Errr]

I have never got one from hugging or holding hands..lol

[crazycoller]

If she notices- no biggie. She may be a little embarrassed or she may take it as a compliment. As for anyone else, why are they looking there to begin with? If you really want to cover it, try to tuck it into your waistband.

[jovien]

lol my bro had one when his gilfreind was laying with him when she got up to go home his .....thing was hard and swingin over the place i didnt say anything cuase im not embarresing but i dont think she minded

[Andrew0017]

This happens to me when I'm around my girlfriend as well because I'm just so attracted to her and well you know. :P I remember one of the first times we went out she noticed it but made a joke out of it which helped to lighten the mood. Honestly, I doubt your girlfriend will mind, chances are she'll take it as a compliment since it shows you're attracted to her.

[Cluelessguy216]

Thats def happend to me before. But i just didnt think abputy boner and it gpes away. If its really bad tuck it into the elastic in your underwear

[Cudder]

Stuff happens bro. That's all I got to say

[jimmy-magic]

it will pass no doubt in my mind, for now just try and think of something else or distract yourself, thats what i would do anyway.

[CaliLax]

nothing you can do about it bud i have been hooking up with girls for a while and i always get hards... just go with and try to wear sweaters more

[Christheman]

This phase will pass and eventually you'll only get hard when doing something sexual

[canadaski]

It's completely normal and you shouldn't really try to fight it. If it's at a really bad time (public speaking or something) you can try pinching your finger lightly.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

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