I was trying to have a friendly debate with a friend

[The Joker]

And she ended up called me an obsessive bitch.

Same friend that accidentally outed me.

Same friend that always jokes about me being gay (I am, I don't like this. It outed me to someone else).

Same friend who is supposed to be my best friend but can go half a day without saying a word to me.

Same friend who jokingly talks about her hating me, and how no one cares, etc. I know it's a joke, but she's doing it way too much.

This is why I hate people. I become their friend and then they do this shit.

[guacamole24]

I honestly don't think that she is a very good friend. She sounds like she can be very selfish and mean, even if she is just joking. If you don't mind me asking, what did you say to make her call you what she did?

[jovien]

dont say u hate people becuase not all people are like that

[Ender]

You remind me so much of.. me :P

I'm a dumbass when it comes to people, i get close to people easily, and in turn i get screwed over alot.

[scuba steve]

You say, you are 14...? Is this "friend" also 14? If so consult her maturity levels and then you'll find your answer.

[DarkHorses]

I know just how you feel. I always become friends with the wrong people, and they always always always end up hurting me. But truthfully, it sounds like you're a lot better off without this friend of yours, who doesn't sound like a good friend at all. The way I look at it is that the time you spend worrying and feeling sorry because of how this person is treating you you could be looking for a much better friend who won't treat you this way. You deserve to be treated right, and if this person is going to treat you this badly then they don't deserve you in their life.

[Weeping]

I think it'd be better if you wouldn't hang around with her if she's treating you like that.. She can't be a good friend..?

[Errr]

This is common, your the friend they/she dont/doesnt like but they keep you around to get satsfaction and/or entertainment from your pain and/or humiliation. Stop being friends with her. get real friends. The sad part is, i have been this friend AND the other people teasing the 'friend". Either one is not good. Just get good trustworthy friends :)

[Art_dude]

"I was trying to have a friendly debate with a friend"..... and there's your problem. lol

I'm not saying what was said to you was deserved, but I think we all know that there are some subjects which you just shouldn't bring up with certain friends or family. You know the saying "don't bring up politics or religion at the dinner table"? The same type of principle applies.

Nevertheless it sounds like your friend has a mean streak and you need to confront her about it.

[The Joker]

Yeah. She isn't exactly the "Keeps me around just to piss me off" type, everyone.