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FitBmx13
October 12th, 2010, 08:28 PM
im 13 my girl freind asked if i wanted to go all the way.she knows i am not that big. we have done other stuff before. like h/j and b/j can some one give me some advice? im just a little nervis. sorry if i mis spelt anything.
blindbysight1
October 12th, 2010, 08:44 PM
this is entirely up to how comfortable you are around her and if you love her enough to do this. you are still pretty young so there is alot of time to wait if you want to but this is up to you. If you are comfortable with her and think your ready, go right ahead (be safe). Otherwise, tell her you want to wait. If she likes you enough, she'll wait without a problem, until you are ready.
Blind
October 12th, 2010, 08:46 PM
Its your choice. Talk it over with her and see if you both think it is the right thing to do. Or wait for another time
Christiaan
October 12th, 2010, 10:27 PM
im 13 my girl freind asked if i wanted to go all the way.she knows i am not that big. we have done other stuff before. like h/j and b/j can some one give me some advice? im just a little nervis. sorry if i mis spelt anything.
To address yer size concern, if yous are both 13, she's not that "big" either, so don't worry about it.
Now, as for having penetrative sex at 13, I don't think it is that good of an idea. This isn't to say yous can't, cos yous can physically do the deed no question. On the other hand you can also make her pregnant which is one of the things the sex act is for. Are ya ready to be a fether at 13, yer g/f a mothe?
I know there are ways to prevent it, but they aren't fool proof. There's an old saying in Ireland, The first baby comes any time, the second takes 9 months!
Yous have already given each other, experienced that feeling, the full sex act isn't necessary and my advice to yous is to save it for much later, and I say that being not much older than yous.
I'm still a virgin in that respect. I love my partner more than life itself, but there are so many other parts of our relationship that bring us wonderful joy without full-on sex.
Give it serious thought.
Sirpotatos
October 15th, 2010, 07:19 PM
I agree with Christiaan. 13 is pretty young to have sex. I'm 16 and I'm still a virgin too. I don't think vaginal sex is too good of an idea but you can continue to enjoy eachother in other ways.
FitBmx13
October 16th, 2010, 12:05 AM
thanks guys were going to wait it out :) thanks for the help
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