Her...but how?!

[Abigballofdust]

Well, I know this girl, and she's beautiful, intelligent, everything just the best and I just don't know what to do because I really like her and would like to step ahead, however there's a small problem...I'm scared...Because you see I'm not into girls at all, she however moved me somehow...Her personality, her sense of humor and being one of the most beautiful creatures I ever saw managed to get me off my reverted sexual orientation...
Now the problem is not making the first step, the problem is what if she wants to get more intimate, what if she notices there's no sensuality in what I do (because no, I'm not attracted to her body by any means), what then?
Should I just tell her the truth or go ahead and keep her in a lie bubble?
What do you think?
Please keep it to mature replies only...

[Daniel_]

Go for it. Also, calling a girl a creature probably isn't the best idea, however you will never know until you try.

I say ask her out, and if she says yes, awesome, see how you like it. If it turns out you don't like it, just explain to her, I'm sure she'd understand.

[Abigballofdust]

Go for it. Also, calling a girl a creature probably isn't the best idea, however you will never know until you try.

I say ask her out, and if she says yes, awesome, see how you like it. If it turns out you don't like it, just explain to her, I'm sure she'd understand.

Thanks.

[Sage]

Well, I know this girl, and she's beautiful, intelligent, everything just the best
Women like that tend to be in demand so don't expect to be without competition. Don't fawn over her or be overly friendly and kind, as she's likely used to that sort of treatment and it would put her off.

[Paladino]

You should ask her out, and if it doesnt work explain to her, she will understand and if it does work well then thats great. Good Luck.

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

I'm not into girls at all, she however moved me somehow...Her personality, her sense of humor and being one of the most beautiful creatures I ever saw managed to get me off my reverted sexual orientation...
Please keep it to mature replies only...

Never know, Instead of being gay, you might be Bisexual instead.
Try being friends 1st, then become good friends, then if you feel like she might be right for you, ask her out! Even if you then change your mind, you've got another friend. :)

[Art_dude]

hmmm... For the first time in a long time I don't have a definitive opinion! xD
In all honesty I can see both options as healthy, valid choices. On the one hand there wouldn't be a risk in not pursuing her - in fact it would give you more time to mull over your sexuality in your head. But then again, pursuing it would give you a quicker and more direct way of finding out. In the end do what you think is right.

I gotta say tho.. I'm leaning towards you pursuing this. I think good result or bad, it would be a good learning experience for you.

[The Red Devil]

Tell her you think you really like her, and ask her if she would go out with you. Yes I know, much easier said than done, but at the end of the day it's better than constantly wondering what if. Trust me.