great...pretty much awsome

[xgeekyrocksx]

My ex-boyfriend, who i reckon is still sore about the break up thingy, has told our friends about my cutting. The people who he told didnt know anyway and you know what, they where the only people who didnt think that im a fucked up emo freak who cuts... they where the people i could talk to freely and who didnt apologise and go red and worry when they made a joke about cutting, or who didnt ask me if i was okay in PE while changing and who didnt give me strange looks when they spot a scratch or even a proper cut or whatever.... I like it that my friends care... its just i hate it that everyone knows now, is that strange? sorry... xx

[Fiction]

It's understandable that you want people who you can talk to, without wondering what they think about you cutting. As you've said though your friends are only showing they care and at least they are taking you seriously. You should just try to pretend that they don't know, to reassure them that now they know nothing should be different between you and them.

[tombstone]

no, its not strange. i've kept it from my friends and family for a reason. If you ever need someone to talk to that's not going to treat you differently, feel free to pm me :)

[UnknownError]

That wasn very nice of him. :/
But no its not strange, aslong as they treat you the same and care about you, then thats what matters right?
Just act normal, like Fiction said.
PM or VM me, or whatever. Hope your okay. (:

[Mike321]

Its not strange at all, its the same reason that I and probably most people on here dont tell thier family or friends.
But aslong as they are still the same around you and still care about you, it shouldnt really matter.
Its not right what he did though, but any means
You can PM me if you need to talk

[1_21Guns]

It's not strange that you're annoyed everyone knows, but as they're showing you that they do care, and that they know you're not some crazed emo freak so to speak, you're lucky.
with the people that know about me, i've just learnt to carry on like they dont know, most dont ask, and if they see they don't question, so sometimes it's just easier to carry on.
they liked you for who you were before, nothing has changed about you, so you have nothing to worry about in that respect.
it wasnt really nice what he did, but it's done now, best thing to do is carry on
:hug3:

[Asylum]

that's not strange. *huggles* i know what your going through. my best friend told seven people at a camp that my father abuses me, cut... i have an ED... and i was beyound angry and embarrased. of course she stil brings it up in front of mixed company, when i wish she wouldn't *sigh*.
they won't look at you any differently, you are the person you always were. If they liked you before, htye will like you now. they won't look at you differently. How ever if by chance they do... i don't know how comfortable you are with this, but perhaps explain it to them... because they might at first think oh... it's attention she wants to "look emo". However, not all people are like that, some actually think and have brains so try not to fret dear. Perhaps talking to your ex about how much that hurt you could help, perhps he'll give you a reason behind telling everyone.. maybe it was to help and not to be mean. He shouldn't have done that though, he had no buisness in doing so. At least they care hun, it could be them screaming and not being understanding about it *stay strong hun* *huggles* i'm here for you, PM me if you need me, hope this helps!!! :)

[xgeekyrocksx]

ohh thank you to all of you, your all so nicee xx <3 and yeah.. i realise now that maybe it isnt as strange as i thought it was and i will try and act normal :) i pretty much do other than being a bit "should i say this.. maybe not" around them.. its caus i suck at acting :) anyways thankyou to all of youu xxx