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[[chickaroo92]]
October 11th, 2010, 08:57 AM
My cousin died earlier this morning from a massive heart attack. His wife did CPR, and by the time the ambulance came, it was too late. He was only thirty-one years old.

I'm just really upset right now; and wondering why God could take away someone like that, especially when my cousin's kids won't have a father anymore.

Thanks for condolences in advance. I really appreciate it.

Kaius
October 11th, 2010, 09:25 AM
I'm sorry about your cousin Chaii, My uncle passed away in the same way at the end of August, he wasn't even 40 yet. If you need to talk you know how and where to find me

Weeping
October 11th, 2010, 10:19 AM
aws.. :c
here if u wanna talk..

[[chickaroo92]]
October 11th, 2010, 10:57 AM
I'm sorry about your cousin Chaii, My uncle passed away in the same way at the end of August, he wasn't even 40 yet. If you need to talk you know how and where to find me

aws.. :c
here if u wanna talk..

Thank-you to the both of you, I really appreciate it.

Fourth Dimension
October 11th, 2010, 12:47 PM
im sorry =( im here if you need someone to talk to

Art_dude
October 11th, 2010, 05:22 PM
Chaii, I'm soooo sorry for your loss :( I know how shocking and saddening sudden deaths are. Unfortunately I can't give you an answer that will theologically satisfy you since you know I'm an atheist, but I know that my religious friends would say that it's all part of God's plan however seemingly unfair.

[[chickaroo92]]
October 11th, 2010, 05:41 PM
im sorry =( im here if you need someone to talk to

Thank-you.

Chaii, I'm soooo sorry for your loss :( I know how shocking and saddening sudden deaths are. Unfortunately I can't give you an answer that will theologically satisfy you since you know I'm an atheist, but I know that my religious friends would say that it's all part of God's plan however seemingly unfair.


A nice big bowl of ice cream would be fine; and a dark corner. It's just so shocking you know? I was so mad, and still am with God. All my cousin did through his life was give to those who needed giving. Why couldn't God give him a longer life? Thirty one years old, with two little kids and a wife. I don't even know what my Uncle is going through, whatever it is, I'm sure its a mix of all emotion.

Thank you for your condolence.

enjoying_my_insanity
October 11th, 2010, 06:16 PM
im ver sorry about your cousin im sure he is in heaven watching his children and family. you are in my prayers hun :hug:

1_21Guns
October 11th, 2010, 06:29 PM
things happen that we will never be able to explain, and there's nothing we can do to change them.
as i'm not religious, i cant say much from that view,
but what i will say, is don't lose faith, i'm sure a reason for it will come through in the end.
i'm sorry to hear about it, and i'm here if you need me hun
:hug3:

[[chickaroo92]]
October 11th, 2010, 11:11 PM
Thank-you everyone.
Today's just been awful. Crying sessions and all that stuff. I am still in denial, which sucks. But I'll know for sure that it actually happened, when I go to the funeral tomorrow.

Quick_Sylver
October 12th, 2010, 12:37 AM
:hug:

Everything happens for a reason. We may not like the things happening, but it has a reason, whether or not we like it.

I'm sorry for your loss, and I can understand the wanting of ice cream and a dark corner. But you are strong. You can continue going on. Life doesnt stop. Life keeps going. I know that's most likely not what you want to hear, but you have to keep going. I know its hard to bear sometimes, but you have to let go of what's happened, and keep the good memories. I know the good die young and the ones we think will be around forever, arent. The impossible happens hun.

Now, I dont know if any of that makes sense to anyone but me, but I hope you feel better hun. *hugs*

[[chickaroo92]]
October 12th, 2010, 10:15 PM
:hug:

Everything happens for a reason. We may not like the things happening, but it has a reason, whether or not we like it.

I'm sorry for your loss, and I can understand the wanting of ice cream and a dark corner. But you are strong. You can continue going on. Life doesnt stop. Life keeps going. I know that's most likely not what you want to hear, but you have to keep going. I know its hard to bear sometimes, but you have to let go of what's happened, and keep the good memories. I know the good die young and the ones we think will be around forever, arent. The impossible happens hun.

Now, I dont know if any of that makes sense to anyone but me, but I hope you feel better hun. *hugs*
Thank-you.

closed
October 13th, 2010, 07:37 AM
i'm sorry about your cousin, it must have been terrable to you. if oyu need anyone to tlak to feel free to pm me

[[chickaroo92]]
October 13th, 2010, 09:43 AM
i'm sorry about your cousin, it must have been terrable to you. if oyu need anyone to tlak to feel free to pm me
Thank-you.