How do I tell my friend I like him?

[Blind]

Lately I have had a crush on my best friend. He doesnt know Im Bi but whenever I see him I get a boner. He always seems happy around me so I think he likes me too but idk. I think he might be Bi too. And what do I do if he likes me too? and if he wants to experiment and stuff should I let him? We have known eachother since kindergarten. He's 13 btw.

sorry for all the questions :/

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[TaylorLestrangeNee]

That's really cute, if you like him, you should tell him, you think he likes you back, so take a risk, if you don't try, you'll never know, and you might miss an amazing opportunity for life experience.
Just ask him his opinion on bi people, see what he says, if it's good, go for it, or, even if it's not, try, nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you really liked him, you wouldn't let him go without giving it a shot.
Goodluck.

[Blind]

That's really cute, if you like him, you should tell him, you think he likes you back, so take a risk, if you don't try, you'll never know, and you might miss an amazing opportunity for life experience.
Just ask him his opinion on bi people, see what he says, if it's good, go for it, or, even if it's not, try, nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you really liked him, you wouldn't let him go without giving it a shot.
Goodluck.


Thanks for the advice :)

[sam i am]

Just ask ! if he says no just play it off like its a joke. If he's your best friend he wouldn't stop talking to u because of that.

[Christiaan]

I know mate, it's kind of scary cos ya don't want to risk losing him as yer best mate.

I would probs start making some physical contact with him. Since yous been mates that long he shouldn't mind. A hand on his shoulder, touching his arm, or an arm arround his shoulders and a quick hug whilst telling him what a great mate he is and how lucky ya feel to be his mate and have his friendship.

There's really no way he can take exception to that kind of a complement. Watch and feel his reaction to the physical contact. If he draws closer to ya, doesn't pull away or even responds, those are all good signs.

I had a mate whilst in secoondary school. We were alone one summer's eve, outside in the dark having something to drink and I couldn't help meself, I just leaned over and kissed him. I appologized and told him I didn't mean to offend him, but I just felt I had to do it cos we were mates. He said, I know, I've felt that way too and he kissed me on the cheek.

I still love him dearly, AND we're still fast mates, but he's str8t. Normally you'd be disappointed he's str8t, but were such fast mates, I respect him and only want him to be happy. I moved away and just before I left, I told him that I'd always loved him and wanted him to know. He told me that was the most wonderful thing I could have said and that he loved me too.

Take little steps with yer best mate and watch his responces and best of luck and craic to ya.

[PJay]

Man this thread is making me tear up lol.

You have to be in the game to win the game. So yeah, worst thing you can do is nothing, imho. Good luck!

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[Patchy]

Moved to Relationships and dating

Part of your question was asking how to experiment with him we don't allow members to ask this on VT

[Blind]

Just ask ! if he says no just play it off like its a joke. If he's your best friend he wouldn't stop talking to u because of that.
ok thanks for the advice

I know mate, it's kind of scary cos ya don't want to risk losing him as yer best mate.

I would probs start making some physical contact with him. Since yous been mates that long he shouldn't mind. A hand on his shoulder, touching his arm, or an arm arround his shoulders and a quick hug whilst telling him what a great mate he is and how lucky ya feel to be his mate and have his friendship.

There's really no way he can take exception to that kind of a complement. Watch and feel his reaction to the physical contact. If he draws closer to ya, doesn't pull away or even responds, those are all good signs.

I had a mate whilst in secoondary school. We were alone one summer's eve, outside in the dark having something to drink and I couldn't help meself, I just leaned over and kissed him. I appologized and told him I didn't mean to offend him, but I just felt I had to do it cos we were mates. He said, I know, I've felt that way too and he kissed me on the cheek.

I still love him dearly, AND we're still fast mates, but he's str8t. Normally you'd be disappointed he's str8t, but were such fast mates, I respect him and only want him to be happy. I moved away and just before I left, I told him that I'd always loved him and wanted him to know. He told me that was the most wonderful thing I could have said and that he loved me too.

Take little steps with yer best mate and watch his responces and best of luck and craic to ya.

aww cute story and thanks for the advice

Man this thread is making me tear up lol.

You have to be in the game to win the game. So yeah, worst thing you can do is nothing, imho. Good luck!

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Thanks for the advice

[GagaAlex]

I have no idea id love to tell a friend how i felt but dont know how'd they react + No one knows im bi and im not sure if he'd tell anyone :/

[RobbieK1]

Well ask him how he feels about gays take it from there

[jovien]

Just ask ! if he says no just play it off like its a joke. If he's your best friend he wouldn't stop talking to u because of that.

thats my opinion lol he got it to the tip

[jovien]

I know mate, it's kind of scary cos ya don't want to risk losing him as yer best mate.

I would probs start making some physical contact with him. Since yous been mates that long he shouldn't mind. A hand on his shoulder, touching his arm, or an arm arround his shoulders and a quick hug whilst telling him what a great mate he is and how lucky ya feel to be his mate and have his friendship.

There's really no way he can take exception to that kind of a complement. Watch and feel his reaction to the physical contact. If he draws closer to ya, doesn't pull away or even responds, those are all good signs.

I had a mate whilst in secoondary school. We were alone one summer's eve, outside in the dark having something to drink and I couldn't help meself, I just leaned over and kissed him. I appologized and told him I didn't mean to offend him, but I just felt I had to do it cos we were mates. He said, I know, I've felt that way too and he kissed me on the cheek.

I still love him dearly, AND we're still fast mates, but he's str8t. Normally you'd be disappointed he's str8t, but were such fast mates, I respect him and only want him to be happy. I moved away and just before I left, I told him that I'd always loved him and wanted him to know. He told me that was the most wonderful thing I could have said and that he loved me too.

Take little steps with yer best mate and watch his responces and best of luck and craic to ya.

thats beautiful

[Blind]

So my friend and I talked today. And guess what he said he likes me too. And he said he's Bi too but he was afraid to tell me because he was afraid I wouldnt like him because he was Bi. :)

[PJay]

Really pleased for you. Bet that took some guts.

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[GagaAlex]

Awwh thats so sweet congrats :) You going out now? (YN)

[Blind]

Awwh thats so sweet congrats :) You going out now? (YN)

yeah we are :)

[GagaAlex]

Awwh congrats :) i want some one now :(

[Christiaan]

So my friend and I talked today. And guess what he said he likes me too. And he said he's Bi too but he was afraid to tell me because he was afraid I wouldnt like him because he was Bi. :)


Oh that's absolutely brilliant mate. Wasn't that the most wonderful moment for both of yous, something to remember for the rest of yer life. Have yer feet come down to touch the ground yet?

[Blind]

Oh that's absolutely brilliant mate. Wasn't that the most wonderful moment for both of yous, something to remember for the rest of yer life. Have yer feet come down to touch the ground yet?

haha yeah I couldnt believe how well it worked out :)

[josh93]

well you should probaly ask him if he Likes you and if he is bi. If he says he is bi and he likes you then you are on a good track and then if he asks you if you want to experiment and you feel conmfotable with it and he dose to then go for it. I do wish you best of luck.

[Blind]

well you should probaly ask him if he Likes you and if he is bi. If he says he is bi and he likes you then you are on a good track and then if he asks you if you want to experiment and you feel conmfotable with it and he dose to then go for it. I do wish you best of luck.


Yeah I did we are dating now :)

[DrkZ90]

Congratulations! That's so cute, hope you two are happy and that, no matter what, you'll always be there for each other, being friends first and foremost.

[Cudder]

You two should expirenent
He should know your 2.8 on the scale and he should see your little thing

[BrianS]

Lately I have had a crush on my best friend. He doesnt know Im Bi but whenever I see him I get a boner. He always seems happy around me so I think he likes me too but idk. I think he might be Bi too. And what do I do if he likes me too? and if he wants to experiment and stuff should I let him? We have known eachother since kindergarten. He's 13 btw.

sorry for all the questions :/

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I feel the same way bout one of my friends. I get a boner so easy when Im with him. We both get happy when we see each other.

[RoseyCadaver]

if you really like him go for it!it's ALWAYS better to know then be rejected, something I need to learn.I would go for it(if i was you :) )!Who knows maybe he feels the same!