Curious

[indianaboy]

Ok, I'm going out with a girl, and recently I've been having feelings for a guy. Him and I have had some good conversations and I think he may have feelings for me too. What should I do?

[PJay]

same as if it was another girl. If the girl doesn't mean that much to you, maybe you need to explore what your feelings are for this guy which might mean dumping your gf. But you obviously can't keep the gf too unless she's incredibly open minded lol.

I'd suggest keeping the guy as a (good) friend for now and seeing what happens on sleepovers.

But then I have no personal experience at this sort of thing :( Just try not to hurt anyone is my advice.

[Contra]

Well, you should see which one of them do you prefer, that is, for whom do you feel the most intense feelings and the one you'd prefer to date.

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Agree with above help, but if you find out he likes you, you cant dump your gf and go straight to him, cause it will hurt her really bad. jsut take time and talk to both people, he might not like you in that way but jsut as a close friend.