I feel wrong

[green]

So ive been going out with a girl for 10 months and i am starting to feel like I should see other people. I feel that shes starting to become to clingy and is always updating what shes doing for the day by texting me every day and most days she sometimes exceeds 5 texts in 4 hours just telling me what shes doing. I feel like an arse hole because I want to break up with her but im going through some stuff and I need to work things out. Its a week until her birthday party so should I wait until after to break up with her or just not break up with her. please help.

[IAMWILL]

Well, if you don't want to fully break up with her, maybe tell her you want to be apart for a little while. There's not much point in being in a relationship you don't enjoy that much, and it's probably better for you to start fresh with someone else.
They say "Variety is the spice of life" for a reason, and you seem to be losing touch with that.
It's your call obviously, but maybe a break for a while would be nice for you.

Apart from all of that, if the texting is the only thing annoying you, just ask her to stop and tell her she doesn't need to text your constantly. She's been your girlfriend for 10 months, she should understand.

[The Red Devil]

When you start feeling like you don't want to be in a relationship anymore it can be an indication that maybe that person isn't the 'one' for you. If your not happy in a relationship or your uncomfortable with something going on in your relationship, you really need to talk to the person your in a relationship with. Try and talk through your problems and sort out what ever is confusing you and making you unhappy or else end the relationship and spend some time apart and seriously look at your feelings and decide whether they are the right person to be in a relationship with or not.

When you have been with some one for 10 months that is a considerable amount of time for people our age, and really at that stage you need to talk and trust each other by explaining your thoughts and how you feel. If you still ar'nt happy and can't work it out, then perhaps breaking up with her is the best thing for you to do.

I believe that you cannot force people to stay in relationships, and if at least one of the people in a relationhip is unhappy then breaking up is probably the best thing to do.