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[Kris2]

how do ya tell yr gf's rents that u got her knocked up?

[Cloud]

Face to face,
and if shes young with a kevlar vest, knee pads and a cup

really though, much respect for telling them and not letting them find out on their own
but be formal about it, and dont be like "YAAA MAYYYT GOTT YOUR DAughtEr KNOCKed uP MAYytgsaECF"
be respectful about it and do it face to face

[Sage]

You temporarily disregard all care for your own well being and approach them honestly with consideration for their feelings.
Edit: As Calum suggested, body armor can never hurt as well.

[1_21Guns]

:arrow: relationships and dating.

[Art_dude]

Yea, just to reinforce what's been said, kevlar vest and a cup is always a good idea.

But yea, as Calum said, in all honesty you need to approach them as respectfully as possible. If you can, try to get both families together (your mother and father, as well as your gf's mother and father) and sit them down to discuss it. Sit them down, and with your girlfriend, take turns calmly explaining what has happened. If you take the time and effort to calmly and respectfully tell them, they will respond better.

Make it a point to say that you're interested in having this group together to create a forum of ideas as to how to proceed.

[Daniel_]

Can you rephrase the question please? I have no idea what you just said. Or if it was even a question.

Could you rephrase your above post please?

[Kris2]

Can you rephrase the question please? I have no idea what you just said. Or if it was even a question.

Could you rephrase your above post please?

lik:what:e i got me gf preg n i gotta tell her folks n we both under age like

[Daniel_]

Ohhh I see.

Do it in person, and be honest. Don't lie or anything, thats the worst thing you can do.

Or the bent coat hanger trick.

Just sayin'.

[Kris2]

coat hanger?

[Hatsune Miku]

Like everybody else said.

Tell them face to face, be calm and be honest.
Also show them that you consider their feelings about the situation
Be respectful about it, and pull your pants up before talking to them ( assuming you're one of those young hipsters who shows their boxers )

[Rutherford The Brave]

lik:what:e i got me gf preg n i gotta tell her folks n we both under age like

You might want to start with walking in with your balls in a jar and your soul in another.

[jovien]

umm def i to their face

[Kris2]

thanx guys - gonna see em t'morrow n wont be saggin! - lie smart shirt n stuff, tie n all? n i guess no docs?
shld me gf b there n all or best 2 do it on me own?

[DreamSeeker]

See if she can be there.

Just a bit of advice, if you don't want to carry on with the pregnancy, why not to go the clinic/GP as they should help you out for free and it's confidential. They can't tell unless it's threatening to you.

Good luck

[Kris2]

well i did it - like smart gear black shirt, suit n tie n stuff , all respectful, no disin nothin - was rank. both sets of rents went ape n her dad gonna report me t cops so may not b here for a bit if i getssent down 4 it - he tellin school n all so they all kno bout us soon
me gf bin banned from seen me n both gounded - she keepin babe coz they dont beleve in gettin rid - dunno if i gonna be alowed t see it tho
well stressed init

[Daniel_]

well i did it - like smart gear black shirt, suit n tie n stuff , all respectful, no disin nothin - was rank. both sets of rents went ape n her dad gonna report me t cops so may not b here for a bit if i getssent down 4 it - he tellin school n all so they all kno bout us soon
me gf bin banned from seen me n both gounded - she keepin babe coz they dont beleve in gettin rid - dunno if i gonna be alowed t see it tho
well stressed init

Dude.... What??????? Spell your words out, please!

I understood "Well i did it -" Then after that it's like reading Japanese.

[Cloud]

Dude.... What??????? Spell your words out, please!

I understood "Well i did it -" Then after that it's like reading Japanese.

well actually read through it properly,
If you cant understand it when the rest of us can thats your problem not his

And well done mate on being honest, and i know it might seem shit but let the dust settle and it might end up with you two beinga ble to see eachother again

[Daniel_]

well actually read through it properly,
If you cant understand it when the rest of us can thats your problem not his

And well done mate on being honest, and i know it might seem shit but let the dust settle and it might end up with you two beinga ble to see eachother again

I did read through it.. Twice, and I was just trying to help him out, but it's hard to do that when I can't understand a word he's saying.

Well.. Whatever, guess I'll let other people help him out.

[Cloud]

I did read through it.. Twice, and I was just trying to help him out, but it's hard to do that when I can't understand a word he's saying.

Well.. Whatever, guess I'll let other people help him out.

what he said was
he told both their parents
wore a shirt and tie for it to be respectful
and ended up having both sets of parents shouting at him
and then they both got banned from seeing eachother and both got grounded

so its rather up shit creek for him is what hes saying

[Daniel_]

what he said was
he told both their parents
wore a shirt and tie for it to be respectful
and ended up having both sets of parents shouting at him
and then they both got banned from seeing eachother and both got grounded

so its rather up shit creek for him is what hes saying

Oh I see.

And also, about the dad reporting you to the cops, I wouldn't worry about that at all, sounds to me like hes just a bit pissed off(What father wouldn't be?) and is probably just over worked and shocked by the whole mess.

I'm pretty sure the only way you could get in trouble with this is if it was done unwillingly, and if it was your girlfriend I doubt it was, so I'm not 100% sure, don't quote me on that, but I'm pretty sure you can't get into any legal trouble. Maybe child support payments if you don't help take care of the baby, but other then that none that I can see or tell about.

[mranderson]

Good job tellin them. And they have no legal case against you so your good there, plus if you cant see the baby you probobly wont have to pay child support so yeh..

[Clawhammer]

Well, you had the balls to stand up to them about it. And she's keeping the baby, and you're not as dead as you could be. Though it wasn't very smart frolicking betwixt the satin sheets in the first place, you're doing pretty well so far. Just do what's right and you'll come out okay.

[Kris2]

thanx 4 ur suport lie -awsum.
i gonna do rite by her lie n look afer babe if i is alowed to
shit week at school tho - every1 nows like but i can hac it
thanx all