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bud2.0
October 8th, 2010, 10:23 PM
okay so i have an issue, so i dated this girl in the end of 8th grade, and ended in the fall of freshman year, and then at the beginning of sophomore year we dated again and ended 2 months later, and now its junior year and she's in one of my classes and i cant stop thinking about her and we talk more than any other girls i talk to and i just don't know what to do can someone give me sone advice thanks? oh yeah and the tittle is that I'm 90% sure she still likes me because she made a subtle hint to it 2 weeks ago and i guess i still like her.

*EDIT* the reason we broke up the second time is because i didn't think it was healthy that a relationship was a secret because her and her ex-bestfriend had this whole agreement for the year and some stuff that im not getting in to but thats why we broke up the second time and the first time she said she needed some space and then at the end of the summer leading to sophomore year she said that she was stupid and wanted me back

Sage
October 8th, 2010, 10:31 PM
It's healthier to move on than continually try to pursue past love interests. Secondly, don't think anything of subtle hints, because you like her, you have a twisted perception of reality and thus will read any little action as her trying to show that she likes you when in reality she has little interest.

You're sixteen. You've many years ahead of you. Don't worry about her and keep your eyes on bigger, better things.

justalovestruckteen
October 9th, 2010, 03:48 AM
okay so i have an issue, so i dated this girl in the end of 8th grade, and ended in the fall of freshman year, and then at the beginning of sophomore year we dated again and ended 2 months later, and now its junior year and she's in one of my classes and i cant stop thinking about her and we talk more than any other girls i talk to and i just don't know what to do can someone give me sone advice thanks? oh yeah and the tittle is that I'm 90% sure she still likes me because she made a subtle hint to it 2 weeks ago and i guess i still like her.

She might be. She might not be.

Try telling her you still like her.

Paladino
October 9th, 2010, 05:24 AM
Try asking her back out, and if she says no move on, but if she says yes she very well could be the one.

Sage
October 9th, 2010, 02:31 PM
She might be.

she very well could be the one.

If they've already been dating twice and aren't together now I would highly doubt that. As I said, on-and-off relationships are really unhealthy. It's more likely that she's not dropping any hints at all, but that's just what the OP perceives, because he has feelings for her and thus sees the world through that lens.

DreamSeeker
October 9th, 2010, 04:56 PM
Give it a little while longer and if you still get hints from her, ask her out again and see if it lasts. I have been through it, went out with a girl for a week, ended, she still liked me and so on. And we ended up in a proper 5 month relationship. So good luck :)