sneaking out

[Mariiniitahh]

me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other frequently without our parents knowing(im actually going to see him tonight). he sneaks out of his house and sneaks into my room through my window (usually he comes around midnight and stays till like 4am)... luckily i havent been caught but i am scared as to what would happen if our parents found out. im 14, hes 17 and he told me hes moving out of his parents house next month. what do you guys think i should do? should i continue running the risk of getting caught or should i just wait a month until we can actually see each other WITH my parents knowing? thanks =)

[Rutherford The Brave]

First off, its not the greatest of things, He'll be 18 soon so sneaking into your house is a HUGE no no. I also think that him moving out isn't great because i know you two want that atypical relationship like you see on TV but its just not going to work that way.

[shottosh]

As far as actual LOVE goes , I wouldnt let my parents control that part of my life. If I truly loved someone.......lets just say my parents would be strapped to the walls with ALOT of tape.....Nah , dont do that , but if you only just like the guy you got two options. (At least I would)
1. Keep doing this.
2.Tell your parents (Tell whichever one is the weaker one mentallyfirst , as in they understand you better , or just cave in to anything you ask)


Sorry if this doesnt help , Im sorta new to this thing.

[Mariiniitahh]

First off, its not the greatest of things, He'll be 18 soon so sneaking into your house is a HUGE no no. I also think that him moving out isn't great because i know you two want that atypical relationship like you see on TV but its just not going to work that way.

well hes actually turning 17 on november so he wont be 18 till next year

[Rutherford The Brave]

well hes actually turning 17 on november so he wont be 18 till next year

Still, thats not the point. The point is, you two cannot be sneaking around. Your parents are going to get upset when they get the fact that you've been doing this for a long time now. Your violating their trust, and technically it is tresspassing.

[Sage]

Your violating their trust, and technically it is tresspassing.

I'll second this, you're just starting your teenage years- Having parents that don't trust you will be Hell. Take my word on that.

[usernamelol]

just wait a little bit until its cool with your parents.

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Talk to your parents about it, they might not care as much as you think. but dont say you've been sneaking around.