this guy i like..

[hardcore-smile]

heey, so heres the story.
i like this guy named ryan and he's really cute. he likes me also and we've been "seeing eachother" i guess were not dating but we have a thing. he comes over all the time and cuddles and kisses me and tells me that when my ex is over me he wants to be my boyfriend (my ex can beat him up and will if he knew) and he tells me things like "don't ever let go of me, don't ever hurt me, i could stay here laying with you forever". But when we are @ school he doesn't even acknowledge me? he hangs around with this girl who has a thing for him between classes, and he did stuff with her 1 day before we got together. and we have a class together and in that class he will barely talk to me, i got mad today and he gave me a hug & asked what was wrong, i told him a lie. but then later i asked him why he ignores me and he told me he doesn't want anyone to tell my ex, and i said "its not even that, you don't even talk to me?" i told him that i don't want this to continue if your not going to acknolegde me. he said he will talk to me,

but what do i do??
thankss, xoxo

[Contra]

It seems to me that he likes you, but he's scared to be beaten up, and I mean, people can be very mean and create rumors just because you're talking to each other, so he's just watching out for his safety. If you like each other, you should keep him and start a relationship, if that's your will.
I think what you need to do is talk to your ex, because it's ridiculous that you can't move on with your life just because of him.

Good luck :)

[hardcore-smile]

i can't talk to him, he used to beat me and now i'll get arrested if i talk to him.

[shottosh]

Wow....ouch
I am no expert at this stuff by far , but I would just go find some type of elder to deal with the whole "beating" thing. So you guys can just live in peace.