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Javsters000
October 5th, 2010, 11:32 PM
Okay I Never Had Gay Sex But If I Do Does It make Me Gay Or What???

Alex_.-
October 6th, 2010, 12:04 AM
if you have sex with someone of the same gender i would not consider you straight.

not necessarily gay, maybe some degree of bisexual

but def not straight imo

wingman3434
October 6th, 2010, 07:44 AM
If you only like guys and have no interest in girls i would say your gay,
But if you like guys and girls you would probably be a Bisexual (Bi meaning 2)
If you are just trying something with a guy friend but have no sexual feelings towards men i would still consider u st8.
Just my thoughts considering sexual orientation

Giles
October 6th, 2010, 11:13 AM
Not straight, no. I wouldn't think so anyway, it's true that your hormones change a lot of things during puberty but even so I wouldn't say that you could be straight. Most likely Bi if you feel that way.

cokeboy
October 6th, 2010, 11:42 PM
nah dude doesnt make u gay or bi just expieremneting
nothing wrong with trying it u may like it still wont
mean ur gay or bi so have fun :yeah:

usernamelol
October 6th, 2010, 11:56 PM
if you enjoy it and pursue getting more gay sex, you're probably gay. if you do it once and don't enjoy it, you were experimenting. if you do it every now and then with guys and girls, you're bi. only you know for sure.

owen daniels
October 16th, 2010, 01:15 PM
I wouldnt say it makes you gay because you i think that you should try everything at least once in your iife :)

axel3
October 17th, 2010, 04:09 PM
well it depends. you can have sex and all. as long as you don't have emotional feelings for them... like emotional attachment or attraction is what would make you gay.

josh93
October 17th, 2010, 08:21 PM
not litualy gay but mabey Bisexual in a way.

TopGear
October 17th, 2010, 08:25 PM
Well having sex with a guy is considered a homosexual action so, Yes I believe if you have sex with a guy; your gay or bi. having sex is too far for "experimental" act.

TheAppleGeek
October 19th, 2010, 02:43 PM
no ur curious, if u like it and like str8 sex ur bi, if u just like gay sex ur gay

crazycoller
October 19th, 2010, 08:37 PM
Not necessarily gay, you may be just curious or bisexual. Though you may be gay.

Jhon
October 19th, 2010, 08:56 PM
If you have sex with another guy you are gay or bi

Jay3112
October 20th, 2010, 01:11 AM
Tbqh I think that if you have gay sex with another guy you are not necessarily gay but if you love the guy then you are gay or if you have it regularly.. That's my opinion anyway lol

Guitarman
October 20th, 2010, 04:22 AM
As most people have said, "Did you enjoy it?", "would you do it again?" if you answered yes to both of those questions then I would say you are most likely gay if you maybe then I would say possibly bisexual but if you said no I would say you are most definitely
heterosexual

mranderson
October 20th, 2010, 03:34 PM
nothing you can do can make u gay, u decide if ur gay or not, if ur attracted to the same sex

RbElImInAtOr
October 20th, 2010, 05:13 PM
i sometimes watch gay porn does that make me gay no im straight. if you have snal with a guy then you might be curious i mean we are all curious from time to time

zander
October 20th, 2010, 07:13 PM
ok speaking as a gay guy i have to say enjoying sex of anytype does not define your sexuality. your sexuality is defined by who you are attracted to , what sex would you like ot spedn the rest of you life with. there are plenty of people htat have sex just to get off, if that is the case and you are not truly attracted but just want to cum then i would say you are not gay or bi , but have an orgasm addiction. i met a guy like that. he ws not atracted to guys at all, but loved taking it. he had a girl friend and she even used a dildo on him when they had sex. so he liked the feeling of something up his butt but was not attracted to guys. i know it sounds weird but it is totally possible

coleman8r 77
October 21st, 2010, 12:39 AM
not necessarily gay, maybe some degree of bisexual

derrick
November 13th, 2010, 03:43 PM
yeah hes right about being bi and wateva.

curious_boy
November 13th, 2010, 06:00 PM
no, only if there is major emotional attachment.

Jonathan M
November 13th, 2010, 11:33 PM
Just curious/horny, in the middle of puberty there are so many hormones its pretty hard to tell what you are unless you just absolutely love one of the genders. The only reason i know im straight is because i saw someones penis in a locker room and was disgusted and not turned on what so ever =D

The Cali Kidd
November 14th, 2010, 02:06 AM
I don't think it dose

bmr11
December 19th, 2010, 12:20 AM
if you have sex with someone of the same gender i would not consider you straight.

not necessarily gay, maybe some degree of bisexual

but def not straight imo

exactly im sick of all these "straight guys pretenden their still straight when they do gay thngs in secret..u may b bi but ur defitnetly not straight.

ccrunner
December 19th, 2010, 12:32 AM
I agree with alex

campbellstarr
December 19th, 2010, 01:18 AM
Depends if you like it or not

nickisadinosaur
December 19th, 2010, 02:43 AM
Well, you definatly would be straight. But i think sexual orientation is decided more by feelings than anything. Soo if youre more attracted to guys then it would probly make you gay.

Shenron
December 19th, 2010, 02:47 AM
It all depends on the context. If you are doing it just to try it, then it does not make you gay, in fact, sex in and of itself does not determine your sexual orientation. There must be a physical AND emotional attraction in order for you to be gay. Just because you have sex with another guy, doesn;t mean you are gay. You are only curious. If you like it and you are emotionally attracted to guys as well then you may be bi, unless you are only emotionally attracted to guys, then you are gay. But, do not take my word for it. Only you can determine your sexuality.

jockboy14
December 19th, 2010, 02:47 AM
dont worry about labels. just be you.

haha123for
December 19th, 2010, 02:57 AM
exactly im sick of all these "straight guys pretenden their still straight when they do gay thngs in secret..u may b bi but ur defitnetly not straight.

Ok, I'm sick of people like YOU making people feel gay. You suck on your very own mothers breast for a period of time does that mean you are in love with her and you want to marry your mother? At least thats what I'm getting from your logic. Unless somebody has genuine feelings for someone of the same sex, they are NOT gay. To me, without en emotional connection of man-man or woman-woman, it is IMPOSSIBLE to be gay. When you masturbate, it feels good. Are you going to marry your hand and tell it you love it, and have children with it? NO. So shut the hell up and think before you post, because people like you annoy the crap out of me.

P.S: Learn to fucking type bro. -___-

ShaneK
December 19th, 2010, 06:49 AM
Sexuality is fluid, it changes throughout our lives. For most people there will never be a gay/homosexual experience, I believe everyone is capable of this if they meet the person right for them. Our preferences and tastes in sex change. You have a lot more fun to come, trust me. People get bored so they try new things.

Sexuality is not something defined in stone, it evolves and changes as we go through life.

CaliKiDD
December 27th, 2010, 11:21 PM
i had sex with a guy :/ i hated it i went back to the females

lilum
December 28th, 2010, 01:27 PM
well put it this was if you had gay sex you are not 100% gay but if you have sex with women as well you may be bi

sieg
January 11th, 2011, 11:18 PM
you need an emotional and physical attraction to the same sex to be considered gay
so unless you love the man your not gay. though many people wouldnt consider you straight.

ITSGUCCITIME
January 19th, 2011, 10:56 PM
if you have sex with someone of the same gender i would not consider you straight.

not necessarily gay, maybe some degree of bisexual

but def not straight imo

I agree

merrad14
January 20th, 2011, 08:28 AM
ive had sex with a guy and a girl... and i think guy was kinda better... im BI and proud... idk if it will make u completely gay but maybe a little bit BI

PJay
January 20th, 2011, 08:40 AM
you need an emotional and physical attraction to the same sex to be considered gay

That might be true for you, but I think you could have one or the other and be gay. Guys have sex with prostitutes don't they?

Ok, I'm sick of people like YOU making people feel gay. You suck on your very own mothers breast for a period of time does that mean you are in love with her and you want to marry your mother? At least thats what I'm getting from your logic. Unless somebody has genuine feelings for someone of the same sex, they are NOT gay. To me, without en emotional connection of man-man or woman-woman, it is IMPOSSIBLE to be gay. When you masturbate, it feels good. Are you going to marry your hand and tell it you love it, and have children with it? NO. So shut the hell up and think before you post, because people like you annoy the crap out of me.
P.S: Learn to fucking type bro. -___-

Jeez chill out guys. This is the trouble with labels. People don't want to be gay, or more precisely they don't want all the bashing that comes from it, so it gets all emotional. Both of you: if you don't want a label, don't use them yourself, then you won't be offended or offend anyone else. Its down to what YOU feel and want to do.

Enjoying sex with guys doesn't have to have love in the mix at all, any more than sex with girls. Some guys are really close with their best buds, but a lot of them (from posts here) would worry that sex would ruin that loving friendship.

tyler007
January 21st, 2011, 07:36 PM
I dont think that makes you gay at all, if your just having some fun and experimenting and want to try it out then thats cool. If you like it and want to keep doing it the you might be bi.... But as long as you are having fun and being safe, then who cares.

CaliKiDD
January 21st, 2011, 10:35 PM
no one on here can tell you that only you can really know

Darkhorse
January 21st, 2011, 10:40 PM
It's your choise if you want to categorize yourself as gay bi or str8 not anyone elses

josh6387
January 26th, 2011, 04:56 PM
if you prefer to have sex with a dude, then your definitely gay.
no preference whether your with a dude or girl, then your bi.
Never have sex with a dude, only girls, then your straight.

just my opinion.

Jed69
February 12th, 2011, 03:17 AM
no just curiostiy, experimental. if you get into a habbit of it hoght, it cud be classified as bi/gay

Fishes
May 24th, 2011, 04:26 PM
it doesnt make u gay
just curious

Infidelitas
May 24th, 2011, 04:31 PM
Please don't bump old threads.
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