View Full Version : Have i embarassed myself?
Love.Hate
October 5th, 2010, 02:41 PM
Basically i have been going out with this guy for 5 days now.
He is really shy and i really do like him. I am his first ever serious
girlfriend.
we have already hugged and held hands. (with a little pursuasion from me)
but i want more. i want him to kiss me. so today he walked me home and we
hugged and i kissed him on the cheek. he went bright red and went home
without saying anything.
have i just embarrassed myself because he wasnt expecting it or does
this mean he will actually be more confident and kiss me?
Thankyou :)
Nickbee
October 5th, 2010, 03:40 PM
I don't think that means he's gonna kiss you now, he went red because he likes you and he prolly wasnt expecting it...
Just let the guy get used to you, let your relationship develop at its own pace! its only been 5 days and your his first serious girlfriend, he's shy and he's just nervous about it.
Errr
October 5th, 2010, 07:49 PM
I have been this guy, he is scared to kiss you, but still wants it a lot. Make him REALLY comfertable first and YOU make the move..or you'll scare him away possibly. good luck :)
mranderson
October 5th, 2010, 08:35 PM
I agreee with errr, hes just nervious, once u kiss him tho it will be really easy
usernamelol
October 7th, 2010, 12:23 AM
that's tricky. i think he just didn't know what to do because you caught him off guard. i think he'll come around. probably tomorrow :D
Chris_Likes_Drums
October 7th, 2010, 11:25 AM
he might also just be nervous cause if he hasnt done anything like that before, then he'll be scared that he isnt doing it right or what ever. Just be a bit patiant =]
justalovestruckteen
October 7th, 2010, 02:45 PM
You said he's really shy, he seems like the type that would ask permission to kiss (and thats a cute personality)
Maybe you should just wait, cause sometimes rushing things scare a guy.
Daniel_
October 7th, 2010, 07:14 PM
You just made his world.
Trust me :).
Next time when your alone, go in for some more(:
jovien
October 12th, 2010, 05:27 PM
ok well #1 never force someone k? the to ur q its making him more comfortable
The Red Devil
October 14th, 2010, 05:00 AM
Lol, what Daniel said. You just made his day. Or week. He went red because he likes you, and since your his first serious girlfriend, he is nervous and has very little clue what to do. I know the feeling!
Don't worry you didnt embarrass yourself - Your dating!!
I think next time your by yourselves, give him a hug, look him in the eye, and lean in for the kiss, if you get close enough he will respond.
Good Luck!
Love.Hate
October 15th, 2010, 12:40 PM
Thankyou all for your comments
The next time we met he kissed me instead of me kissing him,
so i think me being a bit pushy paid off :)
The Red Devil
October 16th, 2010, 01:42 AM
Congratulations, some of us guys are just nervous and shy, and need a bit of a 'push' in the right direction. Im glad it worked out for you!
Love.Hate
October 18th, 2010, 11:19 AM
Thankyou :)
whereismymind
October 18th, 2010, 11:55 AM
i think you just surprised him and made his heart race thats probably why he went red you shouldn't worry about it
Azunite
October 18th, 2010, 02:14 PM
He didn'T expected that you love him so much and kissed him, thats why he blushed,
now go get him :D
Clawhammer
October 18th, 2010, 02:16 PM
Straight guys liked being kissed. He blushed because it was sudden and unexpected, but I have no doubt that he loved it. He was just stunned is all.
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