I don't know what to do...

[coolkid719]

Sigh..Recently, my two bestest friends got in a relationship :(
I get mixed feelings everywhere.
I'm happy for them, but I'm not happy for myself.
I want to be with them, but I feel uncomfortable being with them as the third wheel.

I'm straight and curious.
I have this emotional crush towards my guy best friend, which makes me jealous of the girl best friend. I'm jealous of my guy best friend because he's getting more friendly with the girl best friend, and I'm jealous of both of them being in a relationship.

They hold hands, hug, kiss, and I feel so...bitter.
They are my true best friends so they try hard to not leave me out.
They still want me in their lives, and you could say I'm basically the third guy in the relationship instead of being the odd one out third wheel.

But I just feel so...jealous..bitter...left out...

I don't know what to do...

[nick]

Well if you are a true friend you will want the relationship to work for them, so its fine to be around some of the time, but remember that they need space and some time alone too.

[Trickster]

we all dont want to be the third wheel with couples. So it may suck a bit but i think maybe you need to branch off, and find some other friends. They will always be your best friends but they're a couple so you cant expect them to include you in everything. Hang out with them for as much as you want but try to branch off and find other single friends or friends whose signifant other isnt always there.

[Christiaan]

Completely natural and normal to feel like ya do. There's no solution you'll be happy with short of them breaking up. Until that happens, you'll just have to put up with it, but keep in mind if yer best/f is str8t, he will be finding another g/f.

[Never_Forget]

Oh my days,
I know exactly what you mean </3
It's horrible isn't it?
Tbh, it made me uncomfortable in my own skin,
the ghastly joy I got from them arguing, getting angry with each other.
The dreadful reality is, there's nothing you can do.
You can suppress and deny all the bitter feelings but in the end, they're always going to be there, even after my friends broke up I got the same feelings from seeing them sad about it.
Just try and stay strong <3

[DreamSeeker]

Just try and keep it out of your head and continue to be friends, and not trying to be negative or nothing but be careful if they/when they breakout. As breakups can sometimes lead to the loss of friendship and you don't want to have constant arguments between them and then ruin the whole friendship.