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tomboysk8r1314
October 4th, 2010, 10:38 AM
Alrighty! Haha so pretty much i like this guy, he's in my group of friends and in a few of my classes plus he sits next to me in homeroom in the morning.

Two girls already have asked me if i was dating him since we're always talking/goofing around.

I like him but the question is does he like me?

Reasons why i think maybe he does:
We talk in homeroom every morning
Im the one that he calls over to get help with homework
he saves me a spot by him at lunch
when he didnt have pockets one day he designated me the one to carry his i-pod xD
Trying to make me laugh at every moment possible
Makes up stupid excuses to talk to me (ex: loosing a silly band i gave him that he ''found'' in his locker)
During gym he'll sit by me during head count


soooo yeahh...what do you think? Does he like me, or thinks of me as just a really good friend?

Chris_Likes_Drums
October 4th, 2010, 12:01 PM
Sounds like he might like you, but also might just feel like he can be himself around you as you two are good mates, what I'd suggest you to do is to just ask him, just a simple, do you like / fancy me. Simple way to find out, if he asks why just say a few girls thought he did and pretend like you're just curious.

hope it helps :)
good luck
VM if ever wanna talk x

tomboysk8r1314
October 4th, 2010, 01:18 PM
Haha sounds good to me (: lol thanks

justalovestruckteen
October 4th, 2010, 02:32 PM
Seems like he's starting too. A friendship turning into a relationship. awwww.

tomboysk8r1314
October 4th, 2010, 05:50 PM
Seems like he's starting too. A friendship turning into a relationship. awwww.

Haha...ohh crap. Now that makes me second think is cuz my previous and unsucsessful relationship was with a friend. Ah well..maybe this one will run a little more smoothly. :D

Chris_Likes_Drums
October 5th, 2010, 02:42 AM
Haha...ohh crap. Now that makes me second think is cuz my previous and unsucsessful relationship was with a friend. Ah well..maybe this one will run a little more smoothly. :D

Well, relationships with friends can work out fine yanno, just try not to be too different with him if you go out that to when you were only friends, cause he might be creeped out how much you suddenly change. be yourself :)

tomboysk8r1314
October 5th, 2010, 08:30 PM
yeah i know lol im still bestii buddiies with my ex :)

I know to be myself lol

IAMWILL
October 6th, 2010, 01:16 AM
Umm
He's doesn't like you, he's obssessed with you.
He's also probably wondering the same thing right now.
Solution: take him aside after school, and if you're comfortable with it, tell him you want to spend some more time together, tell him to call you, kiss him on the cheek, and walk away, look back and smile.
You'll make his year, and he'll probably explode.

tomboysk8r1314
October 6th, 2010, 06:06 PM
Umm
He's doesn't like you, he's obssessed with you.
He's also probably wondering the same thing right now.
Solution: take him aside after school, and if you're comfortable with it, tell him you want to spend some more time together, tell him to call you, kiss him on the cheek, and walk away, look back and smile.
You'll make his year, and he'll probably explode.

Haha as much as i would LOVE to do that, i think hes dating someone..im not sure :/

Lol and i cant really see him after school. I have soccer he has football :P

Haha and obessesed? Could you please explain why you think that?

Thank you though (:

IAMWILL
October 6th, 2010, 10:00 PM
If he's flirting that much, he's either single or a bad boyfriend.
I don't literally mean obssessed, what I mean is that it seams like your all he's thinking about and that he really is desiring to be with you. It's just like a craze guys get into, where you're the center of his world.
If he's man enough, he might ask you out if you show that you like him back in a few days. At least that seems imminent.

usernamelol
October 7th, 2010, 12:25 AM
i think he likes you. really really likes you.

electricfeel
October 7th, 2010, 02:46 AM
Hmmm he could like you, or he could just be a really friendly guy. I know alot of guys that are just friendly:D. You might wanna ask him if hes gay or bi though haha.

Chris_Likes_Drums
October 7th, 2010, 11:34 AM
Hmmm he could like you, or he could just be a really friendly guy. I know alot of guys that are just friendly:D. You might wanna ask him if hes gay or bi though haha.

it wouldnt really matter if he was bi... He'd still like girls.. :/
and not all friendly guys are either gay or bi.

tomboysk8r1314
October 7th, 2010, 08:21 PM
If he's flirting that much, he's either single or a bad boyfriend.
I don't literally mean obssessed, what I mean is that it seams like your all he's thinking about and that he really is desiring to be with you. It's just like a craze guys get into, where you're the center of his world.
If he's man enough, he might ask you out if you show that you like him back in a few days. At least that seems imminent.
Haha oh ok that makes more sense, and i found out hes not dating anyone (: and ive had like 3 people tell me that we'd make a good couple xD
Hmmm he could like you, or he could just be a really friendly guy. I know alot of guys that are just friendly:D. You might wanna ask him if hes gay or bi though haha.

Hes not gay or bi, he's straight and i have a buddii of mine looking into who he likes for me lol thanks tho (:

Errr
October 7th, 2010, 08:25 PM
I have friends I'm like this too..but thats all they will ever be. It seems to me you are getting in the 'friend zone' hurry up and flirt a little. If he flirts back, then you know he does.

tomboysk8r1314
October 7th, 2010, 08:28 PM
I have friends I'm like this too..but thats all they will ever be. It seems to me you are getting in the 'friend zone' hurry up and flirt a little. If he flirts back, then you know he does.

Lol i do flirt with him, i dont know if he sees it or not but i for sure do xD
Thanks (: