How to break up?

[jason93]

I want to break up with my girlfriend as I don't feel it is appropriate any more.

How can I do this without hurting feelings?

[justalovestruckteen]

why exactly don't you think its appropriate?

[Kaius]

why exactly don't you think its appropriate?

That isn't really any of our business

As for how to do it without hurting feelings there isn't really a way to stop that. As for breaking up with her, there must be a reason whether its you don't feel the same or you want different things just be honest with her, lying will hurt more than the truth. Let her know you still want to be mates if she does, or maybe just say you need a break, see how you feel after the breaks over whether you want to continue the relationship or break up for good. Talking is the best solution

[jason93]

I have decided I want to obey God and not have sex outside of marriage this is why I think our relationship not appropriate.

[Weeping]

Well, don't tell her like through a SMS or smt.. Tell her face to face.. And take it easy to her, explain why u don't think it'll work out and such.. And say like you can still be friends and you'll always be there for her and such.. (as long as you mean it)

hope this Will help a little ;)

[justalovestruckteen]

I have decided I want to obey God and not have sex outside of marriage this is why I think our relationship not appropriate.

Oh ok cool.

Than tell her that, cause if you just say you want to break up without any explanation, that would hurt her. Well, she could get hurt anyway but if she really likes you than she'll understand.

Also, remaining friends is a good idea.

[DreamSeeker]

Meet up with her and tell her calmly. And be there if she get's upset as I know how hard a breakout can be :(. But certianly don't do it via Text (SMS) / Online Chat (MSN/Facebook etc). As I have been dumped by MSN and it hurts even more than by person. So just explain to her and hopefully you can be friends. :)