Liking a friend.

[TySpeedy]

Okay, I really like this guy who is my friend. He like kinda flirts with me. But so far I think he is straight. Never heard anyone say he was bi or gay. I REALLY like him, maybe even experiment with him. But I don't know how to tell him I like him or even ask if he wants to experiment with me. The guys at my school don't have sleep-overs either. So it's kinda hard. Plus I don't want him to think I'm weird or anything. How should I go upon this? :confused:

[NitoJuanito]

I know the feeling :|, my friend is always, i dont know, making me feel weird, but i think he's bi like me. Sometimes, when we are alone in a room, i feel like hes going to "do things" to me. I dont want that to happen and at the same time i do. :|

[Christiaan]

What do ya mean he flirts with ya? How does it react when ya touch him? Have ya ever put yer arms around his shoulders or hugged him? How does he react. Does he do anything like that to ya?

Look for the signals he sends and then if ya feel the signals are there, all ya can do is tell him.

[trackstar9.875]

Doesn't have to be a sleep over. Invite him over to play some video games; preferably when your parents aren't around, and just see how things go.

In PRIVACY - you'll be able to be a little more "forward" without worrying that someone else will witness your advances.

Good Luck! You're cute, and you deserve someone special.

[KenFisher]

I guess I'm in the same situation as you, not being able to do much. Doesn't help that a) he's getting a girlfriend and b) there is no gay option for him.
Anyway, make sure he is really flirting and not just messing with you. Some boys just act so gay that you can't tell gay and messing apart.
And yea, you don't need a sleepover, all you need is a legitimate reason to get him to go to your house. But don't think things must happen.
By the way, my friend likes me hugging him, and we hug all the time. He obv doesn't fancy me though, he just giggles when I'm with him in private. I think I'm like a friend he can have fun with, but never going out. Not sure, ahh well. Careful reading responses, the point was.
Good luck mate :)

[mmmark1985]

wow so that kinda sucks cause id say ask him to a sleepover. Id say dont say anything to him yet cause you dont know how hes gonna react so. Try to get alone with him and see what happens. Maybe watch a movie that's got some hot stuff in it.

good luck :)