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XxMurderedKissesxX
October 2nd, 2010, 09:38 PM
My mother is emotionally abusive. She tells me im useless, unwanted, stupid and a horrible person unloved by anyone. Ive been choked by my stepfather and im constantly reminded that they couldnt care less if I killed myself. My stepbrother and his fiance have told me I could stay with them but they live out of town and that would mean giving up all my friends and going to a new school, My firends are the only reason im hanging on. But I cant take living in this hell. Im afraid id be nothing but a burden to my brother. An unwanted out of place pain in the ass. Im stuck and I dont know what to do. : /

Scarface
October 2nd, 2010, 11:06 PM
First of all: :hug3:

Second of all, don't ever believe anything that your parents have said to you. It's not worth listening to because it's not true. You're none of what they say you are. I in my opinion would go to your brother house. That drama is just too much. To get that from your parents is very tough because those are the people that are supposed to love and care for you.

Your friends are always going to be there, but what about your well being? You can always call,text,IM, email. Also you can go and hang out with them. That way you don't have to cut them off. You just need to do what is best for your well being. You don't live with your friends.

Even though you might have to go to a new school and a new environment, you're going to be safe and that's important. You can even make new friends and still have your other friends too. :) You're not going to be a burden to your brother if he was the one that offered that means he cares about you and wants you to be safe too. I think it would be best if you took him up on his offer, you wouldn't be a burden hun. I think it's for the best. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here PM/VM me anytime.

:hug3:

Fiction
October 3rd, 2010, 05:56 AM
As Ronnie said, you brother obviously loves and cares for you, and your friends obviously do too. So what your parents are saying is not true. Also as Ronnie said you can still keep your friends as well as going to live with your brother. At the end of the day the decision is up to you and no one can make it for you, maybe you should discuss it with someone? This sometimes helps :)
Youc an VM/ PM me any time too :)

Obscene Eyedeas
October 3rd, 2010, 06:11 AM
Tbh none of us can tell you what's right or wrong. which choice to make and what will be easiest. we don't know the whole story so we give advice as best we can. in that situation i'd take your brothers offer. a new environment is what you need. you can still visit your friends now and then but you can't live in such a way just for your friends

disassociation2016
October 3rd, 2010, 08:30 PM
Don't let them get you down! I know from experience that I'd give anything for my sister and I'm sure your brother would give anything for you. I recommended living with them if your step dad puts his hands on you. When your safe with your brother report him for abusing you.