I really need to talk to someone who's come out to their parents

[ColdFire92]

Hey. Thank you for taking the time to read this cause i really need your help. I'm trying to find a way to come out to my parents but im having alot of trouble. Everytime I'm about to ask if i can talk to them i can never come up with how to tell them. So i just end up saying nothing and going through the rest of the day feeling horrible and really disappointed in myself. I took some of your guy's advice and i came out to few of my closest friends and they didn't seem to care too badly though a few of them seemed kinda shocked. But i have absolutely no idea how to tell my parents. They're the kind of people that well... they're not very understanding towards people like me... to say it lightly. Any help here would be very welcome. Thanks for your help so far.

[Aηdy]

First of all, how old are you?

[mRojas2000]

Nike treatment:

JUST DO IT!!

just do it, man, its not that at their backs they have a gun, waiting for you to say you're gay... if thats what you mean

[kda2011]

I mean there is nothing they can do... So just tell them!

[ColdFire92]

Im almost 15 and first of all they can kick me out of the house or worse keep me there but just ignore me and pretend im not there.

[him]

y dont u tell us so we can give u an idea on how to approch them

[cooldudescott2]

i agree with him and what i mean is tell us will see if it is good

[MrKaramel]

I Kno A Solution.

duhh. Jus Dont Tell Them
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I Mean Tell Them, But Not Now. If U Scaredurgonna Get Put Out R Somethin, Jus Wait Til You Own Yourown, Then Tel Them. They Cant Don Nothin Then, Its Ur Choice.

[~Ðarç~]

your typing confuses me :D
and yeah, thats a good idea too, but if they're good parents they'll accept you anyway i mean if they throw you in the road sick the cops at them! cuz that'd be fucking cruel

[Drug Sniffer Dog]

As everybody else has said, u should just tell them. Or you could not tell them at all.

[megamikey59]

idk if you already got answered but i only took time to read your post. so um just send them a message in myspace or a email or something.. seems alot easier for me. and after i did that i could tell them anything.. well it might be harder for you since you probably live with your parents.. i live with my grandparents and it's too hard to tell them anything..
Hey. Thank you for taking the time to read this cause i really need your help. I'm trying to find a way to come out to my parents but im having alot of trouble. Everytime I'm about to ask if i can talk to them i can never come up with how to tell them. So i just end up saying nothing and going through the rest of the day feeling horrible and really disappointed in myself. I took some of your guy's advice and i came out to few of my closest friends and they didn't seem to care too badly though a few of them seemed kinda shocked. But i have absolutely no idea how to tell my parents. They're the kind of people that well... they're not very understanding towards people like me... to say it lightly. Any help here would be very welcome. Thanks for your help so far.

[Gaffer17]

Im almost 15 and first of all they can kick me out of the house or worse keep me there but just ignore me and pretend im not there.

Dude i had the exact same fears:) and my friend was hounding me to tell them(which im thankful for:D) and they reacted well (they knew since i was lyk three) but there ur parents they shud love u no matter what.And it can be scary but thats just nerves,but only tell them when your sure u are gay and when ur ready and u dont have to tell them now if u dont feel lyk it

[thisqboy4u]

In what rule book does it say you have to tell anybody? Everybody's parents want their kids to have a normal heterosexual life. But we are not all that way. Some parents will care, some won't, some will be shocked and some will go crazy. All parents probably want grandkids. Well guess what, mine probably won't, but I'm not going to tell them that. Not yet. They may find out at some point, and I will deal with it then. But not now.

[Joe123]

I think there's no need to tell them right now. I mean, they don't have to know. I think you should wait until you're older. Then, they can't kick you out.

[mzakpitt]

i would wait...believe me if it was my parents...i mean they love me, but im bi so i can really hide it from them cuz i like girls more than guys...or maybe more idk...but if it was me i would wait till im like 18 or when ur in college

[The Batman]

Don't bump old threads :locked: