I need help!

[Tsukiko]

I am such a newb...-_-

Okay...so I am transexual(that's why me gender says female, I'm physicaly male.) and I have a boy friend. My BFs parents are against homosexuality but, my parents, who are perfectly fine with who I am and who I'm with, want to meet said boy friend's parents. He hasn't come out to his parents yet and we were both planning on coming out to them together. (before my mom calls them)

Does anyone know how in the hell we're suposed to come out to my BF's rents?

If this is confusing, I can break it down for you. I'm basically speaking for the both of us.

I apologize if this is in the wrong section.:confused::confused:

[disassociation2016]

Honestly there is no right or wrong way to go about it. Just do it as you would know to speak to your parents. Make sure they have your full attention and it's private to allow them to grasp your decisions. I'm sure if they love you undoubtedly they will accept you and still care for you, and possibly let you have your ways.

[Zero Beat]

Make sure he is ready to come out first, because they are his folks so he has to live with them. And if you dont want your mother to call, TELL HER. I'm sure she will understand. :)

[Fruit_Tart.]

i think your parents are doing a great thing for you. if you and your boyfriend want to tell his parents first then do it. or go with your parent and meet them up with his parents and come out like that. if any problems were to occur i'm sure your parents could handle it. :) good luck to you hun! :D

[Christiaan]

Okay...so I am transexual(that's why me gender says female, I'm physicaly male.) and I have a boy friend. My BFs parents are against homosexuality but, my parents, who are perfectly fine with who I am ... want to meet said boy friend's parents. He hasn't come out to his parents yet and we were both planning on coming out to them together. (before my mom calls them)

This is a disaster waiting to happen. Explain to yer Mum what the situation is with yer b/f's 'rents. If it happens this way, the result is gonna be serious trouble and grief. This is not something for him to spring on his 'rents without an audience there. It's not gonna be pleasant at best, worse with ya there not to mention if yer 'rents are.

It'll end up a screaming match between all of yous. You'll end up with no b/f when it's over. Ya didn't mention yer ages, but unless yer legally of age, if his 'rents are that outwordly homophobic already to him, they probs already suspect something and this will just throw petrol on the fire and ya being there will be an added spark. Unless yous can move out together, yer not gonna achieve anything by coming out. Keep a lid on it till yous are ready to do something about it.

Does anyone know how in the hell we're suposed to come out to my BF's rents?

"WE'RE" is not the way it needs to be done. Yer b/f needs to handle this VERY personal and private matter with his 'rents himself.

[Asylum]

either talk to your mom about not talking to his parents, or talk to them yourselves, make sure he is ok with it first because he's the one who has to live with them.