Poor me, he thought my feelings were a joke

[justalovestruckteen]

So just a quick summery.Theres this boy in class that I like. It seems as he's flirting with me. More Info Here. (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=83846)

So, today me and this boy had a random conversation about the alphabet. (long story)

We were talking and I said " I think 'u' should come before 'i'. It makes grammatical sense"

He thought for a bit and said " I don't know how its ordered."

I than thought of asking a teacher but I just continued on "Anyways I think 'u' and 'i' should be together"

"ummmmm" He just said.

I was in fact trying to make a move on him, "What do you think (boy's name)?"

"I'm still thinking about your joke" He answered.

We had to part ways shortly after.

Well I always pretend to like OTHER guys in class, and sometimes I pretend to like the teachers. He knows this, I told him.

This time I'm serous and the boy I like thinks its a joke.

What should I do? Help please.

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Well I think he might not have realised that you were being serious, or he didn't know how to react, you said in your other thread that he was flirting with you. Maybe he likes you but jsut doesn't know how to tell you, or is a bit scared about saying it incase you dont feel the same about him (his perspective) He might actually just want time to think it all out a bit more. Things girls say can stay in a guys mind for a long time. I know you don't want to hear this, but you might have to look long term and wait a bit, things can take a while to happen, but the waiting is well worth it! :)

Keep at it, but don't try to hit on him all the time, it might make him reconsider if you come across as really clingy if you get what I mean.

VM me if you wanna talk about him or anything really :)
Good Luck! :D

[The Madness.]

Maybe you were too subtle, or he was thinking it was just a joke. Ever since you were both joking around, you know? Even though he seemed to ignore or not understand your flirting, he could still like you. Maybe you've been joking and seemed to not mean anything too often, and so now he doesn't really think you're serious about him, plus since you say you like other guys in class, it may make him confused about you liking him or not. Try to stop saying you like other guys and maybe be a little less subtle about the whole thing. :)

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Yeah, I'd agree with the sayin you like other guys, an oftern put a guy off if they dont think they stand a chance they'll give up so they dont get hurt. Dont say you like a cedrtain person if he asks, just say you like some guy you know, be very vague. unless he asks if you like him. Then either dont say yes, or Yes, but dont say no.
Helped? hope so :P

[trackstar9.875]

Your subtle approach went over his head; He was more focused on the subject matter; i.e., the alphabet, than the "whimsical" (kinda back door) approach you were giving it.

...And...NO OFFENSE...he might not be the "brightest bulb in the room."

[Nikk]

THAT was the smartest way to ask someone out...
...And... NO OFFENSE... but I agree with trackstar9.875. cuz when I read "We were talking and I said " I think 'u' should come before 'i'. It makes grammatical sense"" I was like whaaaaat? o_O but then when you said "Anyways I think 'u' and 'i' should be together" I was like jeez i cant believe this dude didn't get the whole point of this :D
Well, maybe i missed something like that too :D who knows? :D

[justalovestruckteen]

Thanks Nikk, Thanks everyone.

Oh I forgot to say

on Friday the day after that,we were in the school library I told him I was serious, He was silent, I couldn't face his reaction so I just said "bye" and quickly left. I heard him say "Bye" in a low tune and he mubbled somthing I could'nt hear.I turn to look back and he was staring at me.

anyways I just left in fear...

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Well, you could ask him if he likes you, just plain and simple. and then possibly ask him out, cause he might just be really nervous about it all.

[User Name]

Thanks Nikk, Thanks everyone.

Oh I forgot to say

on Friday the day after that,we were in the school library I told him I was serious, He was silent, I couldn't face his reaction so I just said "bye" and quickly left. I heard him say "Bye" in a low tune and he mubbled somthing I could'nt hear.I turn to look back and he was staring at me.

anyways I just left in fear...

At this point you might as well just straight up ask him if he likes you back, and don't leave without an answer.

Seriously, I want to see how this turns out :P

[justalovestruckteen]

He knows I like him.

Well I think he does.

(my page went back when I typed this, its not a good day for me.I guess I have to type it again)

Today in class, I planed out a way to get though to his head I'm interested. We had to do a time-lines, with symbols. I picked a heart symbol as one of my symbols. When He wanted to see it, A plan formed in my head and I decided to add his initials into the hearts.

I showed it to him and said "Look into the hearts" I than quickly faced away cause I fear rejection.

After a few moments he began to speak. I quickly turn back to face him. He smiled and said "Yeah, I can tell" as he handed my time-line back.

Ugg rejection...

Although, One of my friends say that its not rejection cause he didn't say he didn't like me, but he didn't say he liked me either...

so REJECTION!

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Well, from the sound of it he does ( if not he SHOULD!!) know you like him by now, what I'd suggest is just straight up asking him, or even ask him out on a date, (see asking people out guide/thread) just something like "do you wanna hang out" or "you free tonight?" That kinda stuff.

[justalovestruckteen]

I don't think he does like me back, to me his response is kinda like rejection.

even my friends say I should straight out and ask him...

[Hatsune Miku]

Heres a tip, guys are horrible at taking hints. If you want to make a move, just flat out ask him out. Don't be afraid of rejection,

[justalovestruckteen]

I'll let this topic drop down, most people don't read the posts before them.