Best Friend Conversation

[coolkid719]

so my best friend is going out with my girl best friend who is also his best friend...well..we're all best friends! xD
i was actually..very shocked and disappointed..that this friendship bond between us three is breaking, and plus i have a little emotional attraction towards my best friend so i'm also jealous.
anyway, things do not seem to work out...but he gave me this very touching convo.


[friend] = best friend
[girl] = girl best friend
[me] = me


[friend]: u know
[friend]: whatever happens
[friend]: if i break up with [girl] or not
[friend]: ull still be my best friend
[friend]: nd
[friend]: dont tell [girl] this
[friend]: but
[me]: ?
[friend]: i seriously believe ur my best friend nd nothing will change that
[me]: of course [friend]
[me]: DUR
[friend]: serious
[me]: xD
[me]: im serious too
[friend]: lol
[friend]: nd
[friend]: i just want to say
[friend]: to me at least
[friend]: my bond with u is stronger than mine with [girl]
[friend]: i hope
[friend]: thats not wierd or anything
[me]: no of course not
[friend]: mm
[friend]: so yea
[me]: well dude, you're my best guy friend i ever had
[friend]: ^^
[me]: and [girl]'s my best gal friend i ever had
[friend]: gal
[friend]: haha
[me]: can
[me]: can't say girl* lol
[friend]: lol
[friend]: yea
[friend]: idk dude
[friend]: my feelings for [girl] can change
[me]: mm
[friend]: but for u i doubt they ever will
[friend]: so yea
[me]: aww lol
[friend]: i would say this in real life
[friend]: but
[friend]: skype is easier
[me]: too cheesy :P
[me]: hahah
[friend]: lolol yea

what feelings are these? just pure best friend feelings? or something else?

[Scarface]

I don't know [friend] or you in person nor can I say from this convo whether he likes you or not, but from what I can see, he seems to really value you as a friend. I'm sure if you talk to him a little bit more, I'm sure he could and probably will open up to you more. It's good that he feels that open with you. Maybe you should start talking more about feeling with him. You could have more heart to heart feelings talks if you share those same feelings that he expressed in the convo. Maybe this could go somewhere, but I've been real close to guy friends and never had any 'strings attached'. Though it's always worth a try.

[Dive to Survive]

I think it's just two best friends talking to each other. You've got a pretty awesome best friend!