My life sucks...

[jokerboy08]

In the past few years, over 13 friends that i hung out with everyday left my town. My brother moved across the country. I quit basketball, football, soccerr, and baseball. I started to do bad in school. I started to play video games too much. One potential friend txted me every week asking to hangout and i turned him down because i was to much into my games. My best friend out of all of them had gone downstate to live with his dad and i would txt him and call him and he would ignor me. We literally hung out every single day in the summer. I started smoking weed. I am lucky enough to have a girlfriend of 2 and a half years that loves me more than anything, and i love her too but it doesnt seem to fix my problem. Suicide was in mind a while ago but is not a problem currently. I punched windows, walls, anything in site when i got angry about life. I dont know how to deal with my problems anymore. I have breakdowns whenever im alone. I cant handle it.

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Im pretty much asking for someone to tell me they have gone through something similar to this and have overcome it or someone that feels like they can give me some advice or something

Thanks for reading, means alot :whoops:

[Scarface]

First off: :hug3:

Everyone goes through their tough times in life. It's also especially hard when you have friends that move away because you lose touch with them easily or have moved on. Don't be so hard on yourself because of your friends moving away. Even though they have gone away doesn't mean that there won't be so many other opportunities in life to make new friends. It just means that, that friend isn't there anymore. Maybe you could text him and if he responds get his email or msn or something that way you two can get in contact more often. If not, you should move on. No point in dwelling on that because there are going to be so many more people that you're going to run into in life.

It's also a good thing that you have a girlfriend. That way you two can communicate and you're not alone, and you have interaction with other people besides playing video games constantly. I will admit, video games are pretty addicting, but don't let them take over your life because there are so many more things to life than a controller and a screen. Go outside, get some fresh air. Even though you quit your athletics, it doesn't stop you from going for a nice walk, heck you could even bring your girlfriend. It's getting out and also a good way to feel better too because being cooped up in the house all the time isn't healthy.

As for the marijuana that is your choice on what you want to do there. I certainly don't condone it because it will make you lazy and keeps you in the house. Just not worth wasting time when there are so many more things to life besides marijuana and video games, you know?

I'm really glad that suicide isn't in your mind because that is never going to be a solution to any of your problems, it will only be that solution with irreversible results, so please don't even consider it. Just try and concentrate on school more, study, get a study buddy that way you can bring up your grades and work with someone and communicate. Don't let everything that's going on right now affect your way of life and mentality, it's just a stressful situation, but it's all overcome-able. Everyone goes through their slumps, but you just need some guidance. I know everything is going to improve because it always does, you just have to do the footwork, to improve and want to be better. You can do this... Okay?
Don't beat yourself up, it's all going to be okay. :hug3:
If you need someone to talk to I'm always here VM me anytime.

[tictac]

I have felt the same way exept i didnt do drugs or have a brother move away but before i have had suicidal feeling my step dad is a huge dick to me expecting me to be perfect and I had 1 harsh teacher who basicly called me dumb and I went to video games like you and had suicide in my head but i know where your coming from and it seems like you have a very nice girlfriend so I suggest you spend as much time as you can with her cause if she absolutly loves you to death she should make your life Happy I hope this helps :whoops:

[The Batman]

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