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Chris_Likes_Drums
September 27th, 2010, 12:22 PM
Right, basicly I'm quite confused..
I've always thought I was straight, and been happy with that. 2 years ago for a few months I thought I was possibly bi, but knew I wasn't gay because I still do like girls.. then after that I just thought I was jsut bi curious and was actually straight cause I couldnt imagen like kissing or doing more with a guy, tbh I still cant, but someone just told me that even if i didnt want to have sex with a guy I might be still bi, I do flirt with guys, but its more jsut messing around.

Could I be bi or bi curious?

Fiction
September 27th, 2010, 01:23 PM
I'd say you where bi curious, or bi even if it's just in the emotional sense. I thougt i was bi when i was about 11 cause i thought i had a crush on a girl but i always knew i liked guys. I've not liked a girl since but i do still ocasianlly think one is quite good looking iygm :L I'm opposite to you if i did anything with a girl would be purly sexual so idk. I don't think it really matters weather you can put a lable on it atm. Just "go with the flow". DO what you feel like doing at the time. Don't hold yourself back because your "straight" but at the same time don't rush into announcing yourself bi :)
Plus most people don't feel ready to have sex before a certain age, yet you wouldn't say they where asexual?

Powerline
September 27th, 2010, 04:15 PM
Sounds like you are more bi curious there is no problem with that it can take some time before you realize what your sexuality is some find out sooner and some it takes longer. Just take some time to think about it.

Hank Hill
September 27th, 2010, 09:23 PM
Definetely bi curious buddy. Unless you have strong emotional feelings for a guy, you are NOT bi. Don't worry about it too much, it happens to TONS of people. :)

Chris_Likes_Drums
September 28th, 2010, 10:22 AM
Okay, thanks :)
helkped a bit, jsut gotta take some time to figure all out.

Fiction
September 28th, 2010, 10:53 AM
Yeah it'll all be clear eventually :)

Paladino
September 28th, 2010, 11:17 AM
Seems like you are just curious, although you could turn out to be bi in the long run.

usernamelol
September 28th, 2010, 06:08 PM
Sounds like you are more bi curious there is no problem with that it can take some time before you realize what your sexuality is some find out sooner and some it takes longer. Just take some time to think about it.

like he said. take time to think about it. i will say that, tho not always the norm, bisexuals usually have a preference for 1 sex over the other, so you'll either be more into guys or more into girls.

xXWatEvsXxXx
September 28th, 2010, 06:16 PM
most deffinetly just bi curious. it seems like this happens to a majority of people at that age

trackstar9.875
September 29th, 2010, 12:53 PM
You don't NEED to be labeled.

Just be happy!

Chris_Likes_Drums
September 29th, 2010, 12:57 PM
You don't NEED to be labeled.

Just be happy!

Fav bit of advise :)
thanks to everyone else too tho :)