Grinding...

[ktmay96]

I didn't really know where to put this so... if it needs to be moved feel free.

So grinding (the dance) is getting like really popular and its like every where at highschool dances. My homecoming was last night, and not everyone was grinding, but a lot of people were. And idk why, I just don't feel comfortable yet grinding. I'm sooo self conscious about dancing, cuz my family has always (jokingly in the sense its not like there being mean) told me that I can't dance. I always felt like I couldn't dance, and I've been trying to do it more and discovered I'm not THAT bad. But I'm still self conscious and danced for the first time in front of people last night at homecoming. But I didn't grind, cuz I was so damn scared. I was afraid I wouldn't do it right, and look stupid and stuff. Like I want to do it just because 1. Everyone does it, and I know the whole parent things "If your friends jumped off a bridge..." but it matters. And 2. I also just want to grind if a guys wants to. I really don't wanna grind with some random guy, but if I have like a date, then if he wants to grind, I'd like to be able to.
So, pretty much what do you guys think of grinding? Some people think its too provacative, and schools seem to think that grinding leads to sex. I'm not having sex 'til I'm married, yea I'm old fashioned but thats me. And also, any advice on grinding and getting over my self consciousness? (i don't think thats even a word... haha) Thanks [:

[Jenna.]

The thing with grinding is, you don't even really have to know how to dance to do it. You just move your lower body, is the best way I can describe it lol. Because other than grinding, I can't dance either. I agree with you about not grinding with random guys, the only guys I've grinded with have been guys I know, or dates, etc. My school doesn't care about it, because they probably figured out that they can't stop it and teenagers will just do it anyway. Just let loose and have fun, everybody looks weird doing it at one point or another. :]

[ktmay96]

Thanks [: Haha that helped. Yea, I go to a Catholic school, so they're not happy about it. But I think they've sorta given up on trying to stop it cuz we do it anyway. And I'll try haha.

[mmmark1985]

great post b/c i suck at dancing but its fun when i do it. Ive grinded a couple times but i stopped b/c it didnt work and i got embarrassed cause i suck lol just didnt match up hips or something idk

[laurita_21]

Im not a big fan of dancing either but I do enjoy grinding :D Not with a random guy of course, I used to usually do it with guy friends nearly all of us are totally comfortable with it never led to sex. I havn't done it in a while lol But I do like it... a lot :D
I don't think my school cares actually, well we're all girls anyway and we never have these kind of events until sixth form.
Just do what comes naturally and try to control yourself lol

[JimSauce]

Yeah I don't think there's much to grinding except a little rhythm of the lower body. But mostly you're just having soft romantic sex while standing, let your instincts take care of it. ;)

It's a pretty provocative dance, but if you can control your urges to rip off your clothes then it's fine. My school tries to ban it, but the staff are outnumbered lol.

[Powerline]

Im not a big fan of grinding it isnt allowed at my school anyway

[appel1234]

i love grinding it fells so good and itis awesome to do at dances