Ever been sexually confused?

[Milo1234]

hi im just a 16yo guy wondering if anyone here has been sexually confused at some point in their life.

i ask coz recently I've been really questioning myself, ya see i were 10yo when i started to question my sexuality, from the age of 10 till i were 16 i thought that i were gay, i spent the 6 years bottling it up and never uttered a word to anyone,

i guess its the reason i cut myself off from everyone else as i never spoke to anyone at high school (apart from a few friends id made) and was always "the quiet kid" i suppose this was coz i were afraid that people would find out if they got to know me too well.

anyway only till recently I've been wondering if I'm attracted to girls as well as guys, im unsure at the moment but i consider myself bi-curious / bisexual. im also still in the closet and haven't told anyone. (yet).

anyone else had an experience like this, id be happy for anyone to share their story no matter how big

[nick]

Michael I'm permanently confused, but really I've come to the conclusion that I dont fit any of the labels really. Mentally I feel completely gay, but at the same time I can spot an attractive girl and would (well have) had sex with them. Occasionally there is a girl I could love. My advice to you is not to worry to much about other peoples labels and categories, just feel free to be yourself and take whatever comes along.

[Tadgh]

I suppose when you're in the early stages of puberty you might feel a little bit curious about different sexualities..

[ktkurbst0mp]

I know what you're feeling. I ended up dating another girl for a full year, and I still don't know if I'm bi or gay. Honestly, I think it matters more about finding someone who makes you happy than finding a label that fits you. You'll figure it out. :)

[Milo1234]

I suppose when you're in the early stages of puberty you might feel a little bit curious about different sexualities..

Thats just it, i wasnt curious, i were 100% sure that i was gay. and it werent till recently i thoughtt to myself "you know wat, i think i might be bi" so if i were ever curious, its right now, about girls.

[Milo1234]

Anywayz thanx to everyone who chipped in advise. i appreciate it