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the8bitter
September 26th, 2010, 12:08 AM
Just a few days ago, my life has been turned upside down by an anonymous figure who I hope will not remain anonymous much longer...

Somebody had called a child abuse agency on my mother, who just happens to be the nicest mother anybody could ever wish for. Apparently, it was over my Facebook page. Now, the thing is- everybody misconceives what I may say or write. I view the world in a very, very depressing tone but do not happen to be suicidal. In the past week, I have been questioned and prodded by many social workers and counselors. And now, it has escalated to some sick son of a bitch calling the Abuse agency on my poor mother. I allowed my mother accessed to my Facebook account, and we still do not know the cause. Just tonight, she had explained that this is going to remain on her record for two years...and should anything else happen I am going to be taken away and placed into foster care. I'm getting sick of this...people should not act upon something unless they fully understand the situation. She says that "we're going to catch who did this", and I want to do my part. But, I do not know where to start. I'm investigating a few friends (who I may label as "friends" very, very soon) who may have thought I was suicidal/being abused and opened their mouths to their parents. I believe both would have equal blame, although I'll probably only be able to "put the hurt", so to speak, on the "friend" who couldn't keep their mouth closed. I am also wondering what may have caused this all to happen...I only explained that I had a rough childhood and just didn't feel quite as loved (to put it in a nutshell, anyway). I know I'm also to blame...I feel like the worst son in the world to have somehow had my mother called in for this. I cannot change whatever it was I had done, but I CAN prevent it from happening again if I can catch the crook. So, I'm asking you, what is the best possible way to catch the sick fuck who called Child Abuse on a poor mother without fully knowing a situation?

Any help is strongly appreciated. Thanks!

-the8bitter

niceguy44
September 26th, 2010, 12:23 AM
it's a difficult one.
try to narrow it down to all those who know and confront them. it is unlikely anyone wil own up though.
good luck. i hope things will be ok

the8bitter
September 26th, 2010, 12:27 AM
it's a difficult one.
try to narrow it down to all those who know and confront them. it is unlikely anyone wil own up though.
good luck. i hope things will be ok

Thanks. I'm guessing it's actually a really good friend of mines. He's pretty honest, though. He even confessed that he told his parents about my depression (primarily a bit of cutting), and his parents act as if I'm part of their family as well. It's possible his parents flipped out and called Child Abuse on my mom, who they know damn good and well isn't an abuser. I asked him over IM if his parents did it, and he explained that they didn't. I am going to have to take his word for it, since he is the closest friend I have. The next biggest culprit is my next closest friend, who also knows and is always acting upon things. Looks like I'm going to have to investigate them next.

DrkZ90
September 26th, 2010, 05:49 PM
You know whoever did it did so because they care so much about you, right?

I mean, I'm pretty sure they didn't do it just to be an asshole, but to do what they thought was right to try and protect you... they might have misinterpreted or overreacted to what you said, but I'm pretty sure it's because they care a lot about you.

Personally I wish I had someone who cared so much about me. Those are the kind of people you want by your side, just try giving them more trust and info next time around so they won't end up making this kind of mistakes.

the8bitter
September 29th, 2010, 06:22 PM
You know whoever did it did so because they care so much about you, right?

I mean, I'm pretty sure they didn't do it just to be an asshole, but to do what they thought was right to try and protect you... they might have misinterpreted or overreacted to what you said, but I'm pretty sure it's because they care a lot about you.

Personally I wish I had someone who cared so much about me. Those are the kind of people you want by your side, just try giving them more trust and info next time around so they won't end up making this kind of mistakes.

I'm starting to think it's this girl that I'm completely infatuated with (and, thanks to being able to keep my mouth shut, nobody knows a thing). She saw some cuts on my arm (sometimes I cut out of depression, but trust me I'm not exactly emo beyond that) and was like "You shouldn't do that to yourself, hun" and crap. If that's the case, I feel blessed rather than pissed.

trackstar9.875
September 30th, 2010, 12:32 PM
Sorry about your situation, but when you post on the Internet; be it this site or any other, you will get responses FAR IN EXCESS of any that you will get just discussing the matter with family and friends....and yes...you'll get the "hysterical knee-jerk reactionary" that came along, and blew this all out of proportion.

I believe the old phrase is: Be careful of what you're looking for; You might just get it!

Unless you're able to DELETE this posting, you stand the chance of this situation repeating itself.