Guilt

[Jagster]

OK, so today, I just started a new relationship... bad thing is, there is another guy that likes her... He even told me himself that he likes her and it's making me feel guilty that I took an opportunity like that away from him. :/ What should I do?

[Spreadingwings]

do what you feel is right, is he your friend? Are you and the girl dating?

[Jagster]

What I feel is right is giving the girl to him. Yes I'm dating her.

[Daniel_]

IMO, it's a dog eat dog world. Don't let people walk all over you, take whats yours just because they want it.

If he really liked her that much, he would have made a move first. Just ignore him, he'll move on eventually.

[The Madness.]

No, if you like her, don't just give her up like that. If you're dating her, chances are she likes you more than she likes the other guy. You can't just 'give up' a girl. If she doesn't go out with him, and then she won't go out with you, then no one wins.

Don't break up with her. Or feel bad. You like her. She likes you. Be happy about it. :)

[Jagster]

Point is, I like the other guy, the other guy likes her, and I think she likes me.... a broken triangle of complete screw-over.

[The Madness.]

Point is, I like the other guy, the other guy likes her, and I think she likes me.... a broken triangle of complete screw-over.

Well yeah, but you don't even know if she likes him do you? And if you break up with her so the other guy can have her, she might not get back together with you if she doesn't like him. Like I said, then no one wins. The other guy will probably get over it.

[Jagster]

The other guy is too good of a person to not be liked.

[Chris_Likes_Drums]

Well, see how it goes with her, might work out and he'll be happy that she's happy. If he really liked her he'd want what's best for her, which might be you, might not. See where it goes, might not work between you two but it might work our teally well.


what I'm sayin is... Give it a go and see where it take you :)

[justalovestruckteen]

A three way relationship? lol I'm just suggesting

well if you want to break up with her than do it.do what makes you happy

[Paladino]

You should stay with her tbh, because you liked her also but you also made the first move, he didnt. If he really wanted her he would have made the first move before you could have.

[Sage]

You're talking about this girl as though she's a pair of jeans that only fits the two of you. She chose to be with you.

[Kaius]

Yeah, as Sage said she chose to be with you when she said yes. If you thought about all the other people interested in the same person you are i doubt you'd ever stay in a relationship, just stop worrying. Tbh, he had the chance to do something before you got together, but he didn't, to me it seems as though he's being a little bit selfish if he expects you to drop the girl because he likes her. It may hurt him yes but do you want this chance taken away from you?

[Jagster]

Not really

[Jenna.]

IMO, it's a dog eat dog world. Don't let people walk all over you, take whats yours just because they want it.

If he really liked her that much, he would have made a move first. Just ignore him, he'll move on eventually.

This. Couldn't have said it better.

[Mzor203]

Think of it this way. Obviously, the girl you're dating likes you. That's a fact because she agreed to dating you.

You can't just hand her over to your friend, relationships don't work like that. That's like trying to push a USB plug into an ethernet port and hoping it'll work.

If you give her up on a friend's whim, that's doing a disservice to him in a way. High school is a different place, but once he goes out into the real world things like that just don't work, and if he doesn't learn that sooner or later, he's in for a heck of a ride in the way of relationships.

Just hold your ground. Things will work themselves out eventually in one way or another, and if that guy is truly a friend he'll get over himself pretty quickly and things will be fine.

[Jagster]

Rex, I wasn't the one who asked her. A third party did that even after I told him no, twice.

[douglous]

Don't worry about it.

She is going out with you. She chose you?

[Jagster]

She chose me because at the time, she didn't know the other guy liked her

[irishboi102]

the first one

[Perseus]

OK, so today, I just started a new relationship... bad thing is, there is another guy that likes her... He even told me himself that he likes her and it's making me feel guilty that I took an opportunity like that away from him. :/ What should I do?

He's probably thirteen like you. He'll get over it; you're not even in high school yet.

[Jagster]

Well, I mentally broke up with the girl yesterday and today she physically broke up with me. Which I was all right with. So she's out in the open, and the other guy can get to her if he wants to... so this topic is now void.

[Spreadingwings]

is the other guy the third party?

[Spreadingwings]

... nvm