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green
September 24th, 2010, 06:05 AM
My older sister, 15, beats me. Whenever I make a comment she hits me over the head. My mum says I shouldn't let her do it to me and she doesn't listen to my mum anyway so should I hit her back and assert a bit of fear over her to get her to leave me Alone?

karl
September 24th, 2010, 08:33 AM
Of course you should! And if you can't hit her, then kick her!

Brighter.Tomorrow
September 24th, 2010, 09:41 AM
Fear isn't the way to rule...Hitting back is just childish. Unless she endangers you, there's no need to hit back. Use your forearm to block her hits, and try to talk to her when she's calm.
If you happen to me stronger then her, simply grab her arm when she tries to hit you, and hold her arm in place and explain to her she's not going to hit you anymore.

Jess
September 24th, 2010, 10:08 AM
just block her hits I wouldn't fight back

KodieBear
October 13th, 2010, 11:27 PM
my sister is the same way. after a while i got fed up with her so i started hitting her back harder lol. she got that i didnt want to be hit reeeeealy fast :)

Nicky97
October 14th, 2010, 09:27 AM
You know her better than most anyone else does. What type of "communication" will she understand most clearly? Communication within the family is vital...

Chris_Likes_Drums
October 14th, 2010, 12:45 PM
If it's because the "comments" you are making are mean then she has a reason to hit you. But I'd sugest just keeping a bit of a distance so she cant reach you straigh away. Means if she wants to hit you has to move which gives you some time to defend yourself

what guy
October 22nd, 2010, 05:55 PM
punch her in the boob

ktmay96
October 26th, 2010, 07:50 PM
punch her in the boob

I find this would be VERY effective! Hahaha! :D But it also might REALLY piss her off. So you could try smacking her back (thats what my little sisters do is hit me back when I pick on them) and if it just makes her mad and she hits you back, then I would just talk to her about it. Or block it.

Continuum
October 27th, 2010, 07:17 AM
Really now, I think it's time to fight back against estrogen-induced tyranny.

I suggest doing a simple falcon punch to the chest will do. Or just, tell her to stop. It's up to you.

Harley Quinn
October 27th, 2010, 11:16 AM
I don't think that you should hit her no, after all you are wanting her to stop so by hitting her back, she will hit you back thus making the whole violence thing never work. You're better off talking to her and establishing some sort of communication, that way you can actually tell her you do not like what she is doing and that you want her to stop. If you cannot talk to her at all, write something and leave it for her to see. Violence should be the last resort, even then, i don't think that fighting fire with fire is a good idea.

The Dark Lord
October 27th, 2010, 11:41 AM
Hit hear back, if she doesn't back down then talk to her, but you'll need to take a stand against her

Scarface
October 27th, 2010, 02:51 PM
Family and Friends:arrow:Abuse

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Wings of Despair
November 17th, 2010, 05:04 PM
Better a friend that an enemy.Try making "peace" with her and try to unederstand why she bullies you.