So This is bothering me "/

[sam i am]

There's this dude that sits next to me in my sci class and we're pretty cool so far he knows I'm bisexual quite a few ppl do ( i am out) and i think I have a crush on him idk how to tell him, part of me don't wanna tell him i don't wanna ruin the relationship. He told me that he's gonna ask this girl out and I'm pretty sure she might say yes. And i just feel like if he does go out with her Im going to feel jealous. What should i do ? Should i keep my thoughts to my self and not tryna ruin anything or tell him how i feel ? Its like every time he smiles it makes me happy like even if my day went bad he could change completely. :/ Ik this post is so cliché but i just wanna ask.

[Art_dude]

I hate to be the guy to point out the obvious but what part of STRAIGHT guy, AKSING OUT GIRL, makes you think professing your feelings would be a good idea?

YES you should keep those thoughts and feelings to yourself. He's clearly not gay or bisexual, and he's clearly not interested in you - he's interested in this girl. Why would you want to jeopardize your relationship just to get something off your chest? Trust me, I know the feeling of unrequited love. So trust me when I say that jeopardizing your current relationship over what's no doubt a crush, is a bad idea. High school is a big place, I'm sure you'll find someone who will like you.

[Spreadingwings]

if he's straight don't tell him, it might ruin the friendship. If you are friends it would be easier to tell if he too is bi or not, but if you do become friends, and he is not bi please don't stop being friends; thats rude.

[sam i am]

I wouldn't stop being friends with him if i find out he's not bi i would never do something like that.And when it comes to finding someone who likes me i don't care,usually when i like someone only come once in a blue moon i can care less about love,etc. This is why its bothering me,but i'll try to keep it to my self your right..

[Spreadingwings]

sorry if I have ruined things for you

[sam i am]

no not at all lol no need to say sorry.