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phily08
September 23rd, 2010, 04:20 PM
Ok so I like girls,ive kissed them and I have a girlfriend, but I also think sexually about guys. Am I normal? :(

Powerline
September 23rd, 2010, 04:28 PM
Yes that is normal. You are most likely Bi. There is no problem with that.

Starlight Blaze
September 23rd, 2010, 04:28 PM
Yep, you're just curious
Don't worry I am the same way and most guys are
As long as it's not emotional attachment it's just being curious

nick
September 23rd, 2010, 04:54 PM
Ok so I like girls,ive kissed them and I have a girlfriend, but I also think sexually about guys. Am I normal? :(
Ian, welcome to VT. I take slight issue with your choice of the word "normal", I think you mean "am I straight".

During puberty many guys get curious about other guys and that may extend to sexual fantasies. For some guys its just a phase while the hormones are a bit over excited, but for other guys its more that that and they may come to realise that they are bi or gay. But all of those things are normal.

Just having those thoughts doesnt make you bi or gay, its only when thoughts turn to actions, or when you realise you could fall in love with another guy, that you have to question your sexuality.

douglous
September 23rd, 2010, 07:22 PM
Of cause you are!

You're curious. :)

Peterapetera96
September 23rd, 2010, 07:52 PM
no, your probably not bi, or gay, every boy thinks that way sometimes, like in p.e. we call this kid boner boy cause he got a boner one time, then you could tell everyone else had a boner when they were changeing

drummaster95
September 23rd, 2010, 08:39 PM
It's normal according to psychologists people sometimes don't know their true sexual orientation till at least 21 but it depends

everestclimber
September 23rd, 2010, 08:45 PM
Yea your normal Im the same way

The Cali Kidd
September 23rd, 2010, 08:47 PM
Ya you are all guys are like that :)

willrod
September 23rd, 2010, 11:03 PM
Of course you're "normal"- you said you think about sex, so that makes you "normal". As to who you're attracted to, there's no "normal"- whether you're str8, bi, gay, or curious, it's perfectly normal, cause each of us is completely different and unique. You might be curious, or bi- or who knows, you might discover that you're actually gay. But don't worry so much about it- just be yourself- you have your whole life to discover who you like :)

GamerCody
September 23rd, 2010, 11:27 PM
You are fine! I have that same dilemma.

cokeboy
September 23rd, 2010, 11:33 PM
ya dude ur normal no big deal. alot of guys are like that.

adam1995
September 24th, 2010, 06:26 AM
Of course you're normal. I don't really get the curious label. We're all curious about lots of things sexual and otherwise. If you're sexually attracted to boys and girls, you're considered bisexual. There's definitely nothing abnormal about that.

trackstar9.875
September 24th, 2010, 01:02 PM
You have a natural attraction to guys, because since we were all little boys...Boys is all we've ever really been around, and were comfortable with.

Girls have always been a little awkward, so it's natural to have this attraction.

johny88
September 24th, 2010, 01:23 PM
I think you are just curious, Im the same.

sms22
June 18th, 2012, 01:14 PM
Your completely normal. Almost everyone is curious at this age.

carlitosway
June 18th, 2012, 01:15 PM
Your completely normal. Almost everyone is curious at this age.
I agree with you, but WOW, thats a serious bump from Sept. 2010!

chetbonare
June 18th, 2012, 04:29 PM
Ok so I like girls,ive kissed them and I have a girlfriend, but I also think sexually about guys. Am I normal? :(

Seeing you didn't put your age I can't say for sure, If your 0-17 then I don't think your "Bi, or Gay" but just curious.. If your 18-Dead then Its possible your gay or bi

purpleninjacookie
June 18th, 2012, 04:31 PM
Your COMPLETLY normal....everyone is curious about the same sex at some point in their life.