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BeautyFromPain
October 13th, 2006, 01:57 AM
Well first of all, I know some of y'all know I had a girlfriend named Cindy but what you don't know is that I broke up with her a few days ago. I cared for the relationship more than she did and I was tired of it.

Alright so now I've been talking and hanging out with this guy named Josh who is 20 years old and I'll be 17 in November. We're seriously talking about dating only my mom is really strict and she thinks that there's too much independence in letting someone under the age of 18 dating someone over 18. So I'm really scared that if I tell her how I'm feeling, she'll put a stop to everything INCLUDING the friendship. (Which I feel that it's a little more than a friendship now.)

I don't know what to do. I can't keep it from her for long. It feels weird.
Ravenous
October 13th, 2006, 06:59 AM
How the fuck can your mum stop you? Your almost 17 you say, so get some independance. If your mum doesn't like it, screw her its your choice. I don't think that age gap is too bad, its not ideal but its workable.
mRojas2000
October 13th, 2006, 08:10 AM
I agree...

First off, its YOUR life, and you choose what to do it about, and not your mom... also, I've heard of people who is 30 and get with girls at your age... the age gap isn't really much if you really think about it...
Second, just go out with him, but don't make it as obvious if it really worries you... just say you're going out with some friends and stuff, and thats it.. your mom doesn't really needs to know that you have a boyfriend if you dont want to...
Hyper
October 13th, 2006, 11:09 AM
I agree...

First off, its YOUR life, and you choose what to do it about, and not your mom... also, I've heard of people who is 30 and get with girls at your age... the age gap isn't really much if you really think about it...
Second, just go out with him, but don't make it as obvious if it really worries you... just say you're going out with some friends and stuff, and thats it.. your mom doesn't really needs to know that you have a boyfriend if you dont want to...

30 - 17 surtenly doesnt = anything real..

But yeah 17 and 20 is difference your both pretty much same by mind seeing as your a girl and hes a guy. Just do what you want your mother cant lock you up and throw away the key, only if you let her..