What is the Big Deal

[The Cali Kidd]

Im 17 years old and uncut my girlfriend is 17 to she still had her v card and I did not so we hand sex so when I told my mom she got all mad and said that I was to young I need help if you could give your age and tell me if it is a big deal or not

[Agony]

everyone who replies after me will probably say something like "OH EM GEE HAXORZ DAS ELEEEEEGAL!" honestly im 15, i dont see a problem with it.thats just a parent freakin out...prolly cause you told her. which begs the question...why?

[NVerson]

The fact that you told your mom... lol You must have a really good relationship with your mom :)

And I don't really think that there's an "appropriate age" to have sex but the only thing that matters is i guess if you and your girlfriend really love each other and are ready to have sex.

-EDITED-
Ok.. I read it again and it was a hand sex. I don't think there's any problem with hand sex

[nick]

I'm reading 'we hand sex' as a typo for 'we had sex'. Here in the UK, and in many other countries, it would certainly not be illegal for you to have sex if you are both 16, but parents dont always like to accept that their kids are sexually active. It was kind of strange that you thought to tell your mum really, its kind of private.