I knew it was to good to be true </3

[tomboysk8r1314]

So yeah, i know just like 4 or so days ago i posted about finally finding a guy who looked past my exterior to really see the girl inside. Well turns out he's not sure he's ready for another girlfriend since his last relationship didnt turn out too well. But see i dont get it cuz i mean he told me that after he told me he loved me and we made out...

I'm so confused and heartbroken now. I dont know what to do...I asked him if we might get back together and he said maybe someday. I just...now that i've experienced how really and truely great he is i dont think ill ever find a boy as good enough as him.

I mean he even went out his way so we could have our first kiss in a tree (haha -- and -- sitting in a tree K-I-S-S-I-N-G)

Im just so frikin confused! I mean i really really like him and want to find out why its not working out for him.....if it helps at all he said that after we went back home he felt like the kissing didnt feel right. But when we were sitting in the tree together it was him that usually made the first move...

Help </3

[Syvelocin]

Well, if he's not ready for another relationship, he's not ready. It can take time to mend that sort of pain. If he likes you, and you like him, I'd wait around and see what the future holds for you too. As guys say about us girls, men are complicated :/ (It's not just us, definitely).

[tomboysk8r1314]

Well, if he's not ready for another relationship, he's not ready. It can take time to mend that sort of pain. If he likes you, and you like him, I'd wait around and see what the future holds for you too. As guys say about us girls, men are complicated :/ (It's not just us, definitely).

Well yeah i guess you're right. But the other 3 days of our short term relationship he seemed so happy. We'd always be texting, id wake up to "good morning beautiful" texts...and i just...i wanna know whats going through his head. On our way to our date (we walked) his dad called him and was hollering at him so maybe we cant date because of him?

Ugh all i know is that if i do have a chance to be with him again, i dont mind waiting cuz he is the guy thats worth waiting for.

[Blood]

Look, people say things that don't really mean. It's part of life. He might still like you and just want to wait, or he might not like you at all anymore.

Just give it time. Try talking it through with him. Find out exactly why he doesn't want to be with you. It could be something going on in his personal life.

You're just 13. If you two are ment to be, cool. If you're not, oh well. They're other fish in the sea, honey.

[tomboysk8r1314]

Look, people say things that don't really mean. It's part of life. He might still like you and just want to wait, or he might not like you at all anymore.

Just give it time. Try talking it through with him. Find out exactly why he doesn't want to be with you. It could be something going on in his personal life.

You're just 13. If you two are ment to be, cool. If you're not, oh well. They're other fish in the sea, honey.

Yeah i know i should talk to him about it, but i dont want to seem all bitchy and act all like "Hey why the hell did u break up with me! Im so perfect and blah blah blah" No thats not me... i dont know how to bring the subject about cuz i told him that id drop the subject after asking like 2 questions.

And as for the there is other fish in the sea thing? Yeah i know there is but hes like that big pirzed fish that makes you feel so proud because you're the one that has it. I want that fish back....

[Blood]

Yeah i know i should talk to him about it, but i dont want to seem all bitchy and act all like "Hey why the hell did u break up with me! Im so perfect and blah blah blah" No thats not me... i dont know how to bring the subject about cuz i told him that id drop the subject after asking like 2 questions.

And as for the there is other fish in the sea thing? Yeah i know there is but hes like that big pirzed fish that makes you feel so proud because you're the one that has it. I want that fish back....

Well, if you told him you'd drop the subject, there's nothing else you can really do. Just give it time. I hope it works out for you.

[tomboysk8r1314]

Well, if you told him you'd drop the subject, there's nothing else you can really do. Just give it time. I hope it works out for you.

Ok so we were texting last night and he told me he was confused. I asked him why and he said and i quote " I stll like you and i wanna be able to hug and make out with u again but there's so much going on right
now". So when i asked what was going on he
told me that he still likes these two other girla that he cant get over. And that like 7
other girls asked him put but he said no cuz
he didnt like them back. Plus he thinks the
two girls he likes dont like him. Soo i guess
when i was dating him he felt like he was
cheating or something? Idk

I told him that id be there to support him no matter what but i just cant see myself without him now. All i ever think about is him.....and how he might not ever date me again cuz i cant compare to the other girls