When is it ok to beat someone up

[Timma]

I know this kid that i want to kill (metaphoricly) so bad he has been mean to be for a year or 2
and if i did it i think it would change peoples opinion of me
which right now is that i have no freinds at all i do is go home afterschool and play xbox...and thats not true i almost stopped playing video games
but i do have no freinds...

i tried just ignoring it... ive tried to do things verbally without violence for the longest time but its not working... my plan is to take my belt that has metal rings on the ends of it, clip a few padlocks to it and beat him with it till someone stops me...

honestly i dont care what you say i think im gunna do it i have been in fights before and its not good to lose because people make fun of you for the longest time and im sick of having no life,no freinds,no one to talk to...

[Happy Turtle]

Beating anyone up is wrong, unless you are in danger of physical or mental harm yourself. In terms of fights- my advice is always to try and stay away from them, they just bring problems. Do you really think this guy is gonna stop pissing you off after you fight him? In fact, he is more likely to hold a grudge against you and come back for revenge.

[nick]

my plan is to take my belt that has metal rings on the ends of it, clip a few padlocks to it and beat him with it till someone stops me...

Violence is never the right answer. Your plan should, and quite rightly, land you in some kind of prison or juvenile detention, that would be a very serious assault. Count up to 10 and walk away from it, show that you are better than that.

[DarkHorses]

Violence is never the answer to anything. Hurting this kid won't do you any good. You'll just be known as the guy who seriously lost his temper. Why would you want friends who only noticed you after you hurt someone else? Those aren't even the kind of people you should want to have in your life. The consequences you could face for hurting someone like that just aren't worth it. Hurting someone else for your own advantage is never the right thing to do.

[Asylum]

do you really want to stoop down to his level? Violence doesn't solve anything. The only way to peace is through peace itself. Plus you'll get in trouble for it. Only sort of fighting that is acceptable is self defense. Plus he'll get even more pissed at you, and get hisfriends after you as well. So.. your plan owuld back fire either way. You either get kicked out of school.. or get bullied on twice as hard and much.

[Timma]

So all of a sudden why is it ok the everyone in the school to reject me and make me feel like an outcast...also what really pisses me off is that people said that once HighSchool started i wouldnt have to deal with this anymore BULLSHIT nothings changed

[nick]

So all of a sudden why is it ok the everyone in the school to reject me and make me feel like an outcast...also what really pisses me off is that people said that once HighSchool started i wouldnt have to deal with this anymore BULLSHIT nothings changed
Tell me about it, story of my life. But you cant fight your way out of it. Let me know if you want to talk.

[The Batman]

What you're looking for is jailtime, there's a difference between fighting someone and beating them, what you're describing could possibly kill him. If you want friends you need to start talking to people and going out and doing things. Also, just ignore the kid he''ll look way more dumb arguing with no one than you would in handcuffs.

[1_21Guns]

never.

as everyones said, it's never 'okay' to beat someone up, never gets you anywhere, sinks you lower than the person your beating up, you're just becoming as bad as him, when in reality, your better than that.
like The Batman said, that kid just aint worth jailtime.
we all know what it's like to feel like knocking somone one for pissing us off, but the truth is, its never the right answer, been there, done that, never again.

[PJay]

Dont go out to beat the guy to a pulp = you lose.

If he screws with you , hell yeah i can see why you might go for it, but even that isn't likely to be a win for you - you might just teach him not to mess with you, but you could just as easy piss him off more so he decides to get his baseball club with nails or whatever ... or you could lose the fight and end up getting your head kicked in (total backfire) OR depending on who is standing around, they may just hate you more for it, very unlikely it will make you friends.

[Agony]

your trying to solve the problem the wrong way. your trying to eliminate the person, not the problem. The person is the one who is taunting you for a problem you know you have, and the problem for you, and what he seems to think is funny, is that you dont have friends.

To put it simply, make friends dude. Be outgoing jin a club or something, and youll get friends, which makes his whole tease a lie, which makes him a joke, and bruise free. Also will probably keep you out of any kind of detention center for the stupidity of taking a metal belt to the kid.

[Golden]

only if they steal something from u

[MhWrestler152]

No one hate me for it but I say beat him up. If he's giving you crap for a long time then he deserves to get hit.

[Daniel_]

No one hate me for it but I say beat him up. If he's giving you crap for a long time then he deserves to get hit.

Talk shit get hit. I agree.

[Clawhammer]

There's a difference betwixt roughing someone up a wee bit and beating the living shit out of them. Yes, there's plenty of people I've almost bashed their faces in, but I wouldn't waste bruised knuckles on some dumb bastard who thinks he got power over you. You can beat him with diplomacy if war ain't the answer to the situation.

[MhWrestler152]

There's a difference betwixt roughing someone up a wee bit and beating the living shit out of them. Yes, there's plenty of people I've almost bashed their faces in, but I wouldn't waste bruised knuckles on some dumb bastard who thinks he got power over you. You can beat him with diplomacy if war ain't the answer to the situation.
The only way to obtain peace is through war.

[jovien]

its ok when u want bush to be pressident (not joking)

[Mr. Awesome]

As the others said already, dont fight him, youll only end up in trouble, he will give you more and more shit. No one has said it yet but the best way to deal with this is to tell a teacher.

Ive been through it, got a load of shite, had no friends, and i was suicidal, one day i broke down in school, it all came out, the few friends i did end up having are friends for life

Join a club, it dosent even have to be in school, i joined a swimming club and a bowling club and life has been amazing since then

[Strength]

self defense.

[Syvelocin]

^ Exactly.

The only time you should ever fight back is when you're in potential danger for getting seriously hurt. That doesn't mean beating him up though. It means when he's holding you down, preventing you from walking away, and he's going to beat you up, then it is technically legal to use self-defense to get you out of the situation, and walk away. Continuing to beat him up when you are out of danger, or in a way that could kill him, will get your arse landed with the administration, facing expulsion and imprisonment.

[flyykidd]

There's limits but talk shit get hit :)

[ChristianaValle]

I dont think its ever okay to fight unless its in self defense. I have been in fights where girls come up to me, and punch me in the face, and i fight back. But i have never started a fight. But, maybe its time to ask someone else for help, a teacher, another student, maybe the principal?
There are many people you can go to who can help.
No one is ever 100% alone...
And another thing, high school is the worst place to think your problems are going to go away.

But, try talking to teachers or other students about bullying, maybe they can help you with just that one kid?

[Apollo.]

If the guy hits you hit him back but if your gonna fight him fight like a man use fists not weapons if he hits you then knock 7 shades of shit out of him but unless he starts it you will get the blame. Also if you plan to beat him until someone stops you what if they dont you end up killing him then getting raped in prison not a good plan right? So only hit on self defence

[Gopher]

i have a rule, i never start a fight but will always finish one. dont seek out fights but dont be afraid to defends ur self

[jbradley]

I was in the exact same postion 2 years ago. I had just moved schools, No friends I had a different accent and I liked playing Video games. So one lad who was classed as popular, a big lad that I really wanted to just punch but I restrained myself as I was smaller and he could do more damage and the consequences where not worth the reward in this case. So I looked on here and other places and found out that most bully's only bully people because either they have been bullied or they have something to hide. I am actually really good friends with the guy now, because I found out from his older brother he loves to play the exact game I do. I confronted him and he said sorry and we talk about it in person. So try to find a common ally with the bully or if worse comes to worse. Snitch. But no matter what people say I think the first option is always better but violence does not help.

[IsabellaJane]

I don't believe in violence or fighting but there is this one girl i will do anything just to slap her round the face
I think you should just ignore him, you sound like your not doing so well at the moment, I'm here of you want to talk
Take care :)

[Kris2]

it easy t say dont fite back if u not in that situation. i agree it aint normally the best thing t do but sometimes u gets so desperate it hard t think of anythin else.
if i was u i'd try n avoid this git but if u gotta do him then just use fists not a weapon that way u less likely t get in serious trbl with law

[Trevoooor]

This is just my $0.02, but I don't think its okay to lay your hands on anybody. Violence is never the solution to anything.

[Wings of Despair]

The thing is if you beat someone people won`t say you are cool.You can only defend yourself with violence,no more than that.Try talking o people less about violence and you will see you`ll find a friend :)

[Bluesman]

That's a bit of a tough situation. If they're bullying you, a reaction like that could be exactly what they want. My opinion though is don't let people fuck with you, cause they'll only keep on doing it. Especially if they start to physically abuse you though, hit them twice as hard as they hit you.

[Macshutter]

fuck him up BAD, do it please. A

[Vkid]

imo it's ok to use physical force with someone to stop them from hurting you or someone else when they aren't responding to alternative methods.

[northskater110]

self defense only.

[loz4]

I have wanted to beat the hell out of people sometimes but it's not the answer, you don't get results from it. It just makes you less of a person, and will not solve any of the problems you mentioned in your post.

[HeroesAndCons]

beating people up is a crime dont forget if you get it to the point where you cant stop yourself and he is really bad condition u can face penalty

[connorfla]

its only okay if your in danger and you need to defend yourself

[Shenron]

i have a rule, i never start a fight but will always finish one. dont seek out fights but dont be afraid to defends ur self

I myself have this same rule. If he wants to fight you, don't back down from it, but at the same time don't go looking to provoke him to fight you. It always looks better to be passive...until someone throws the first punch, then jump all over their ass. And, if he throws the first punch, then it is self defense.

[Craig1995]

I don't think beating people up is acceptable ever but that's only coz I'm the one who normally keys kicked and stuff just coz I'm weird to people who aren't my friends.

[Charleigh]

beating people up is a crime dont forget if you get it to the point where you cant stop yourself and he is really bad condition u can face penalty

When people are fucking you off and your close to pounding the shit out of them, the last thing your going to be thinking about is the law lol :rolleyes:

I think, if you can finish it then why not. Violence isnt the best way to deal with things, but if its the only way! I suppose if its within reason like, not beating them up but giving them a couple of good knocks is ok. But thats my oppinion.

[brandon.t]

im gonna awnser this honestly....ok if i tryed ignoring, talking, and told someone but the bully did not stop......i have to say i would get physical and i have as a last resort (it was self defence) against a bully that went to far and it worked, i think they only try to pick on you because they think your weak but you have to show them you are not easy prey

[brandon.t]

i have a rule, i never start a fight but will always finish one. dont seek out fights but dont be afraid to defends ur self

thats very good advice

[Bobthebeast666]

That better then beating the living he'll out of a kid nearly killing him for just annoying you. I've been there. Well actually he was smaller then me but tried to bully me and that pisses me off.

[jovien]

i think your stupid to do that if you cant fight without weapons then dont fight if you weak get stronger not use something that makes you more powerful you idiot

[Emiil]

[QUOTE=Timma;1024923]my plan is to take my belt that has metal rings on the ends of it, clip a few padlocks to it and beat him with it till someone stops me...

[QUOTE]
dude thats crazy. u think u'll get more friends by doing that?

[maxii]

Dude,, I like the way you think.. :D .. beat him up.!. just dont kill him..

[Tobias]

i have no problem beatin ppl up. i have don it tons of time but i never hit first...
if the other person dosent want to fight then i dont fight him. if he bullies me i push him.
then if he hits me i beat him up and hold him down. thats my way *:)

[Carlyle]

Violence never solved anything, and it only leads to more violence. I took karate and enjoyed the sparring/fighting aspect, but I never used it on another person unless they attacked me first or threatened me, which is seldom done.

[Donkey]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: