Girl help! ( again! What else could it be ? )

[Azunite]

I guess I am the most popular member in this side o' VT eh?

When I make jokes in the class she laughs.
When I say something funny she laughs.
She is very friendly and very smart.
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She is hard to obtain.
It is always I who trigger the conversation.
She doesn't talk a lot, though she is not shy...

Well, I think I am a little bit pushy because as I said it is i who trigger the conversations and our talks end up being short. Today I made the whole bus, including her laugh and laugh until they cracked in two. But our relationship never goes up, instead I think it sometimes goes down...
She is the most polite girl I have yet seen, and I think she knows I am polite and there is a possibility that she knows I love her ( goddamit! ).
For example I got her number today and we were texting, and in a brief second the txting came at a halt. She stopped putting smileys at the end of the conversations, etc etc.......
She had a boyfriend before, I know that from her facebook albums ( or she still HAS that boyfriend ).
None of the boys ( except that Nemesis guy I told you about [see = First Revolt. Results topic] ) talk to her and girls don't kinda trigger a conversation with her but she is quite fine with her situation.
So, am I pushy or what? What is wrong, really?

[Art_dude]

When the other person is shy and you're constantly initiating the conversation you can begin to feel you're being pushy, but I doubt she sees it that way - if she were she wouldn't agree to talk to you and laugh! Some people are just genuinely shy. She's probably nervous to approach you!

Don't over analyze the situation with the other guys. Just keep doing what you're doing. Things take time. Remember: too much analysis leads to paralysis!

[Azunite]

Hmm, never heard that quote before, I'll add it to my quote list.
Thanks Alex, I have no rep points but I would give rep to you if I had.

She started talking again, well as I said it is I who always continues the conversation.
Thing is, I fear that she doesn't want to talk to me :S

[Art_dude]

awww thanks :) glad I can help!

you have to stop this negative attitude, it's going to bring you down!
As I said earlier, if she really doesn't want to talk to you she wouldn't. It's not like she's obligated to respond and make conversation with you - she's doing that of her own free will. It just sounds like she's too shy to initiate it herself. Trust me, if she wasn't interested in what you had to say she wouldn't continue talking with you. Just be confident, girls love that!

[Azunite]

I think she is too polite to NOT to respond to someone...

[justalovestruckteen]

Although I wonder, why don't you just ask her if you're bothering her?