confused about friend

[mmmark1985]

hey so this is cool i found this place. anyway me and my best friend were both 15 are in a kinda weird relationship. I think im bi and he says hes straight but the thing is that we have sex but its more one way sex. we started just jacking off and stuff and then went to bjs and then him fucking me. Ive tried fucking him a couple time but he says it hurts him to much and he doesnt likeit buthe likes fucking me way more. Crazy thing is that he loves me dressing up in my sister clothes or his sisters clothes and we pretend im his gf and he calls me a Michelle. When were having a sleepover and were alone watching tv or whatever we cuddle and he loves that and I love it to. I like kissing but he doenst like kissing me that much b/c he says its to gay. I kinda feel embarrassed and sorta used sometimes when hes like all Michelle. I dunno whats going on so not sure what how to feel or what to do.

[Zero Beat]

Glad you found this site Mark.

Ask him how he REALLY deep down feels for you. No straight guy I've ever heard of does them sorts of things and stays straight. Maybe he has a epic man crush on you :)

[Captor K]

If more "straight" guys were like this, I'd be a happy, happy gay!

Your friend may say he's straight, but good heavens, he sounds anything but. I know straight guys do "gay" things sometimes, from curiosity or experimentation. There are some that are just open-minded like that. But I don't know any who just keep having sex with other guys and do all the other things you mentioned. I get the feeling he's either gay or bi, and you just ask him if he is.

[Paladino]

Maybe he just thought he was straight and then one day he realised he was gay.

[KillerKing]

No such as thing as too gay, your wither gay or straight and it seems to me he's gay or bi.

[The Redlight Bandit]

Glad you found this site Mark.

Ask him how he REALLY deep down feels for you. No straight guy I've ever heard of does them sorts of things and stays straight. Maybe he has a epic man crush on you :)

Agreed.

[The Redlight Bandit]

If more "straight" guys were like this, I'd be a happy, happy gay!

Your friend may say he's straight, but good heavens, he sounds anything but. I know straight guys do "gay" things sometimes, from curiosity or experimentation. There are some that are just open-minded like that. But I don't know any who just keep having sex with other guys and do all the other things you mentioned. I get the feeling he's either gay or bi, and you just ask him if he is.

Agreed 2.

[yoda]

Ya i don't think he's straight, that just kind of to far for him to be straight.

[Kitty Purry]

To me it seems like hes really just looking for sex, he dosent really seem to like you. And im preety sure hes not straight, cause like morgan said:) thats a little far to go to be "straight", it seems like hes in denial! lol:D hope I helped.

[Billy15]

Hey Mark,

I don't know crap about dating but I do think I have an idea of what a relationship is and if I were you (which I'm not) I would feel used to because it's all one sided, just him getting off and see ya. I never want to hurt anyones feelings and I hope my reply doesn't hurt yours but the only way I can respond is to tell you how I honestly feel from what you posted but too, you did say he was straight so I guess some of it makes sense to me.

Mark, he likes to f*** you but doesn't want you to do it to him. You like to kiss, be emotional, loving, but he want's no parts of that. He likes you to dress up like a girl and then he will cuddle but he doesn't call you Mark, he calls you machelle, so is he really cuddling with you or this image that he has fixed in his head of this girl?

Mark I'll be the first to admit that being gay can be very lonely but I think I'd rather be lonely then to be used for someone elses sexual pleasure and when we are making love, he's imagining someone else in his arms but that's me, not you. Personally, if you really like this guy and think he might be a closet gay and afraid to admit it (and as we know that's a difficult thing to do) I think I would tell him thanks but no thanks and maybe, just maybe he might realize that your people to (a good person with much to offer) and he might wake up.

I don't even know you but I think your worth a lot more then your getting and like I said, I didn't say any of this to hurt you in any way, I just read your story and cared.

Billy

[Hank Hill]

Hey, we're all happy you found this here site. As for your friend? Ask him how he feels about you, and if he cares, and is a true friend, he'll tell you. Just don't act weird about it, keep it casual, but also serious. And don't freak out. :)

[Drusilla Rules]

dump him he's usin u!

[usernamelol]

idk if he's 100% straight. i think he's confused or he's trying to make you into a transvestite. if you enjoy dressing in your sis's clothes, keep it up, but if you're not into it, you shouldn't keep doing it.

he sounds like he's pretty into you though. this is a tough one.

[TheAppleGeek]

Glad you found this site Mark.

Ask him how he REALLY deep down feels for you. No straight guy I've ever heard of does them sorts of things and stays straight. Maybe he has a epic man crush on you :)

i agree 110%

[obknobe]

If you don't mind dressing up and you are both into what is happening, ENJOY dude. I think you are blessed. I wish somebody wanted my behind that bad!

[DigBick]

If more "straight" guys were like this, I'd be a happy, happy gay!

^^ SO TRUE!!! they should all be like that!!

[coleman8r 77]

If you don't mind dressing up and you are both into what is happening, ENJOY dude. I think you are blessed. I wish somebody wanted my behind that bad!

i agree make it last

[NitoJuanito]

how the heck could some1 do that? i mean thats not straight im either bi or bicurious, but if i had a "best friend" like you said, ill be gay for him anytime
if you catch my drift ;D

[CoreyOx]

Oh my god, I'm in the exact same position, apart from the dressing up. But it's both ways sex. My "straight" friend lets me shag him in the arse, and I let him bla bla bla. Actually, there's 2 friends I have like this. And the one is adamant he's straight, but I consulted the other one and he's like "Do you know what I actually don't know." But thats by the by. Mark, nobody deserves to get used. So if I was you, I'd chuck him! He's not worth it.

[mmmark1985]

Oh my god, I'm in the exact same position, apart from the dressing up. But it's both ways sex. My "straight" friend lets me shag him in the arse, and I let him bla bla bla. Actually, there's 2 friends I have like this. And the one is adamant he's straight, but I consulted the other one and he's like "Do you know what I actually don't know." But thats by the by. Mark, nobody deserves to get used. So if I was you, I'd chuck him! He's not worth it.

He's my best friend though so I cant really ditch him because I'd miss him lol.