fighting the feeling

[The Cali Kidd]

I was with my girl today kissing we have not had sex yet but she would rub my penis till I cum but today she started sucking it dose that mean she is ready 2 have sex

[LittleMonsterMike]

just ask her if she wants to take the next step

[cokeboy]

nah dude i dont think just because she gave u oral
that shes ready to have sex yet. seems like shes
taking it slow so dont rush into it let her decide when.

[Powerline]

She is just experimenting But that doesnt mean she is ready. Take your time and dont rush sex

[axel3]

not necessarily but it does mean shes ready for at least an oral sex.

[nick]

Just because she has given you a bj that does not mean she is ready for sexual intercourse. She would almost certainly still count herself as a virgin (rightly in my opinion) if it does not go beyond oral and she may be planning to keep her v-card for some time.

[Judas]

Ask her.

[adam1995]

A lot of girls are willing to do oral with a guy even though they'd never go any further.

[PJay]

yeah i've had a girl offer me oral just for fun even though they know i'm gay (i refused). i think some girls are just as horny as boys so just make sure if anything does happen you are safe, but dont assume she wants to go all the way just because her hormones got to her that one time.

[Giles]

I was with my girl today kissing we have not had sex yet but she would rub my penis till I cum but today she started sucking it dose that mean she is ready 2 have sex

Oral sex is completely different from Sexual Intercourse, in the virginity sense anyway. Just because she's willing to touch you and suck you - it doesn't mean she's ready to lose her virginity, assuming she still is. Just give it time and if things work out let her make the first move towards actual sex, girls always ge the deciding vote in that matter.

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[willrod]

Something as important as having sex should be discussed only with her, really. Share your concerns with her, and talk about it in an open, sincere way. Sex isn't something that should be rushed into, so make sure you're both comfortable and 100% ready for it. Oh, and use protection of course :D