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[CaliLax]

my friend and i sleep in the same bed when he sleeps over. he normally ends up in a spooning position with me and kinda takes up 75% of the bed ( were both skinny and muscular). last week i even think he was j/o in bed but i wasnt sure cus i pretended to roll over and he slipped his hand out fast. do you think he wants to experiment or j/o w me?

[whatup]

he might want to, next time u sleep over try j/o-ing when u 2 go to bed and u think he is still mostly awake and see if he says anything

[PJay]

If he's spooning you while awake I'd say yes he's interested. But he could just be doing that in his sleep. He's got to be pretty horny to do anything with you right there, but that doesn't mean he likes you.

I suppose it depends if you want anything to happen. maybe make it a bit more obvious by looking at some porn together and see what happens. i've never had the confidence or chance to do anything like this myself but he's kind of made the first step.

If you definately aren't interested i'd say stop sharing a bed or letting him spoon you, cos something will happen that could hurt your friendship.

[axel3]

its possible just ask or try some kind of approach to the matter next time.

[CaliLax]

how should i approach him on it, cus i kinda do wanna jo with him? last week we talked about being circumcised and stuff and i know he is and he knows i am not, so i already got there... he also could have rolled over subconsciously, so that also may be irrelevant... AHHH the suspense!! :D

[douglous]

how should i approach him on it, cus i kinda do wanna jo with him? last week we talked about being circumcised and stuff and i know he is and he knows i am not, so i already got there... he also could have rolled over subconsciously, so that also may be irrelevant... AHHH the suspense!! :D

Just go with the flow.

Next time, say something like.

"I'm pretty horny. Haven't had a wank in ageeeess. Fancy one now? It'll be joke?"

Simple. :)

[Judas]

If he's spooning you while awake I'd say yes he's interested. But he could just be doing that in his sleep. He's got to be pretty horny to do anything with you right there, but that doesn't mean he likes you.

I suppose it depends if you want anything to happen. maybe make it a bit more obvious by looking at some porn together and see what happens. i've never had the confidence or chance to do anything like this myself but he's kind of made the first step.

If you definately aren't interested i'd say stop sharing a bed or letting him spoon you, cos something will happen that could hurt your friendship.

What he said.

[Guitarman]

I reckon that you move with him if he jacks you off let him do it. I mean you have said you want to so why not do it? This could be the start of something nice for you :)

[PJay]

Guitarman's suggestion seems the least embarrassing. that way you can wake up and causally just say 'mmm thats nice' or something so he doesn't stop.

Crap. Now i'm horny and jealous lol.

[lil emo boy]

lol'z... That happend to me. I just woke up and said ''what the f*ck are you doing!? That'z f*cking molestation! If you wanted to some thing you could just ask! I would'nt mind. w.t.f iz your problem!''... Lucky I dont sleep till 5am and sleep very light'ly... And I dont sleep when I have guest over. I pretend to sleep...

[Giles]

Just because you were spooning it doesn't mean he wants to have sex with you. Why do so many people assume the most sexual scenario?

He may want to experiment, he may not. Either way let him make the first move, if he wants to do something then he'll probably do/say something a bit more obvious then 'maybe' masturbating in bed.