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question13
September 19th, 2010, 03:21 PM
... I dunno what to do...
I know i shouldn't, but part of me is thinking about it
I dunno
Any advice?
:confused: x
Kaius
September 19th, 2010, 03:24 PM
:arrow2: Cutting and self harm
Don't do it under any circumstances, you need to get her some help from a counsellor or her parents. Try to talk to her about things that might be causing her to feel like that.
Ender
September 19th, 2010, 03:26 PM
You can get arrested for it, whether she told you to or not.
It's a really bad idea period. Recommend her to a counselor or something, she needs help.
misery_business
September 19th, 2010, 03:45 PM
How could you even think twice about it? She's your friend why wouldn you want to hurt her? Tell some one about this so she can get some help :) Good luck!
DarkHorses
September 19th, 2010, 07:05 PM
Your friend shouldn't be hurting herself, and you definitely shouldn't agree to hurt her either. She's obviously struggling and really having a hard time if she would ever want to hurt herself, let alone ask you to hurt her. I think you need to try to persuade her to seek help for this. She doesn't deserve to be hurt and cut, and she needs to realize that it's not a good way to relieve herself from whatever problems she's struggling with. I think you should tell her that you care about her too much to agree to something like that, and that you don't want to see her hurting herself. Knowing you are there for her and that you care should be a lot more helpful for her than you cutting her or her cutting herself.
georgiamay
September 20th, 2010, 12:36 PM
like everyone else has said, don't do it. Simple as that.
If you care about your friend, you'll get her some help, rather than making things worse. By accepting this request, you're almost telling her what she's doing is right, which it isn't. Talk to her about it, and make her realise that this won't make anything better for her.
Mike321
September 20th, 2010, 01:14 PM
Dont do it
Like the others have said get her some help, talk to her about it, like why does she want to do it, as her friend you can be there to support her.
Good Luck
ShatteredWings
September 20th, 2010, 06:00 PM
I kind of hope you're trolling.
This is setting off HUGE red flags. She wants you to hurt her because she, for whatever reason, can't do it herself.
She needs some help.
Even knife-play(sexual, google WITH SAFE SEARCH ON) is a bit iffy imo.
The Redlight Bandit
September 20th, 2010, 06:00 PM
Nooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!! Plz don't!
Dark faerie
September 21st, 2010, 03:45 PM
I've had a friend ask me to do that too. It's best to just try and comfort her and help her to stop hurting herself.
Agony
September 22nd, 2010, 09:50 PM
would you cut yourself? if no,why would you cut someone else?
dstnyisurs
September 29th, 2010, 08:52 PM
Why would you even think twice about that? She's asking you to cut her. With blood and a knife and everything. Stop and talk to a parent, that's not okay at all.
Either that or she's hitting on you in some strange way. Go figure. Knife play.
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