FINE hormones, this is the most confused ive ever been :(

[Dunce]

Ok right, long story short I'm 17, used to be straight, then was gay, but as soon as i accepted that i may like girls I went off them... im confused now


I had a little crush on my friend, who is a girl. It was nothing huge but feelings are definitely there(I miss her so much :/). But you see, I did definitely go off girls, I don't like them as much as I used to and rarely have crushes. Though, I'd have feelings for a girl before I'd have feelings for a boy. And i'm more physically attracted to them. I felt like I could have real feelings for a girl but not a boy.

But recently, I got a boyfriend. Don't worry, I'm not leading him on, I do like him... its just that I feel like I'll never really love him... like, the girl crush I had(or have) is a good friend of mine, and when she texts me I find myself re-reading them and smiling when she leaves x's. When he first left x's I found that I didnt care, then I realised that I just have to let myself like him, and to my surprise it worked, and I actually do like him a whole lot more now. but when I let myself like him I noticed my personality kind of changed, I'm not as close and crazy with my friend now, and find that I'm not caring if she leaves x's :(


I feel like I have to choose between a friend meaning alot to me or having real feelings for my boyfriend. :O
Am I bisexual or am I just falling for whatever is closest to me?

[Scarface]

Well, I can't really say if you're gay, bi or straight, but from the sounds of it you really like both sexes, and have feelings for both of them. You don't have to choose right away what your sexuality is. You can take the time in trying from both sides seeing as though now you have a boyfriend would be perfect to see if you feel right with him. It's all up to you on how you feel. If you feel you have the strongest attraction to this boy then great :D, but if you don' then you could always try something with a girl. Of course you could like both, that's perfectly normal, but don't rush things, take your time and think about how you feel deep inside about both. Working out the relationship you're currently in and going from there. Nothing to worry about hun, in due time you may find out what you're most interested in, just give it some time. Okay? :hug3: