I lost all of my friends ..

[Demented]

The start of my 9th grade school year was excellent, I got along well with everyone and I had tons of friends and very popular. A couple weeks ago my friend offered me some marijuana. Well, I like trying new things so I tried it. I tripped out real bad and my friend told everyone about what happened at school. I fucking hate my life. I lost all my friends, no girls like me anymore. Nobody responds to my text, I don't hangout with friends, I just get ignored. I feel like complete shit, I just can't take this anymore. I am constantly being called a Pothead, Druggie, Crackhead, It makes me feel terrible I don't know what to do! I hate my life.

[BOBBY HILL]

Shouldn't of done drugs, man

[PJay]

I was pretty popular up until i came out half way through last year. it took a while but now i think my year has grown up a bit and mostly everyone is a bit more mature about it and i have plenty of friends. So maybe with time it will all come good for you.

there are lot of kids who have done what youve done but with drink in our year and tbh i think some people think the tough love thing is the way to go. personally i think everyone is human and makes mistakes and that is a bit harsh and self rightous.

It sounds like you think you made a mistake and that proably means you'll learn from it hopefully stay away from that sort of thing, and maybe that is all the people around you want to be sure of. if you make sure they realise you know you made a mistake they'll wise up a bit themselves.

Good luck anyway.

[Kahn]

Everyone makes mistakes, your friend wasn't a friend.

Firstly he shouldn't have offered you weed. It can be fun, but in the end it makes you feel horrible. Even if you like exploring new things you should've at least known to not do this. Peer pressure is harsh, and it got the best of you. The most you can do now is try to reestablish close friendships you had before and work up from there. Being popular isn't everything though, and you need to realize that. Don't think to much of it. Just shrug it off.

The fact that you acknowledge it as your mistake and your friends mistake is amazing though. Many people would've only blamed the friend. Good job for taking responsibility.

[The Madness.]

You can only learn from your mistakes. You caused this, but you can just move on. It's from the past. Sure, you could've said no, but you didn't. Now it's over. After people realize that you don't do drugs constantly, they'll get over it. It was partly your friend's fault for offering you the marijuana. But you took it. If those people are so quick to ignore you and call you a pot head exc. They were never your true friends.

[Giles]

Although your friend, that hopefully you've realised isn't a real friend, shouldn't of offered you the drugs. You have to admit that it's your own fault for taking drugs, You're basically unaware of what you're doing when you're on drugs, so what you did was ultimately your fault.

It's a shame about losing friends, my guess is that it was a combination of (un)luck and really bad coincidences. Just try to talk to some of your old friends and explain how you feel and were feeling before hand. If that doesn't work then try to set about making some new friends.

[Mourfus]

Dude I like to try new things is not an exude for pot or ciggerats or any other bad thing u cam do to ur body it sucks to loose all ur friends but as u can see doin drugs is a bad idea

[KodieBear]

eventually people will get bored of making fun of you and accept what happened.

[Peace God]

sorry to hear that but, its 9th grade...in a year or so, a lot of the people that were makin fun of you will be potheads (depending on where you live)

[Nicky97]

Pay particular attention to any that stick with you through this, or approach you with sincere friendship. It's so hard to find real friends. Just don't be blind to those who are there for you in this time of crisis.

It's not right, but labels are a real part of life. Be careful. Nothing you can do at our age will allow you to sidestep the label issue. It's such an immature stupid game. Live through it.

With luck you may discover a few real friends, and there will have been a good part of this bad period. It is temporary. And there are a lot worse labels that someone might pick up.