Is it gay to help a friend jerk off?

[applenerd15]

My friend came over for a sleep over and he wanted to jack off to some porn, so i got out my computer and we jerked off. The about 5 min into it, he reached for my dick and jerked me. I didn't do anything. He said to jerk him off too. So i did. It felt great, but is that gay? He said straight guys do this because guys know what other guys like.

[The Joker]

If you liked it, why does it matter?

[Tre12]

well its really not gay if your just wanking i think haha

[Zero Beat]

No its not. :)

[Tre12]

oh ok

[Harley Quinn]

Probably just curious really. I wouldnt think he was gay unless a) he told you b) you told him that you liked it and would want to do it again, ect. Bit of fun maybe, don't think it's homosexuality

[applenerd15]

Well both of us are straight. He just said that he jerked off with other guy friends before and it was just for pleasure. Nothing more

[willrod]

I wouldn't consider it gay unless you both got something more out of it than just pleasure. Like, it has to have some more meaning, you know?

[walpoler93]

no, thats pretty much just experimenting

[JimSauce]

It's gay if it made you horny as fuck on and you wanted to make hot, sweaty, fiery love to him...So no.

[irishboi102]

its kinda gay but can just be having fun, however u wanna take it

[Harley Quinn]

Well both of us are straight. He just said that he jerked off with other guy friends before and it was just for pleasure. Nothing more

Then i wouldn't say he's gay, or it's a gay act either then. Mearly just for pleasure = for fun, which is totally normal :P

[Nate027]

I think it makes you a good friend lol

A fake friend would probably be like "no way am i touching that thing" lol

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[mmmark1985]

me and my best friend do that and he says he's not gay but im bi maybe lol

[Alec Thomas]

I think that this is just A: a phase that he is going through. or B: he is either bi or gay, that fact that he's done this with other friends is what points to this whole he is in denial thing. I think experimentation is perfectly fine, to an extent. If you're just messing around here and there for some pleasure, than that's fine. but if you're like setting up dates and times of when you're going to do what, than that's when I would put it over that line of just being straight ;)

[The Cali Kidd]

Umm I don't think it is it is just jacking off

[Buddy]

theres nothing wrong with that

[Agony]

yes its gay

[Agony]

its gay, but doesnt mean your gay, or him

[crash007]

I think it is gay because this guy has done this numerous times with guys. This kinda shows that he's past the point of just experimenting. He may not be gay but just likes messing around with guys. I would definitely not consider him 100% straight. And if you both enjoyed it, then does it really matter if it is gay or not. Look past the labels and reputation people are so self-conscious about and do what feels right to you. If you do this, you can't go wrong.

[tyler007]

I think it was fine to do. I have done it with my brother and freinds too. There is nothing wrong with it, just jerking off.. but if you want to do other things like suckiing each other then you both might be gay or bi...and who have to see where that gos.
But right now just some mutual masturbation thats fine. in my eyes at least.

[josh93]

No it aint gay.

[nick123]

I done it before and im not gay. I done it about 4 times. I only did it for pleasure and nothing more. I would never crawl into bed with a guy and go away to town but a simple helping hand isnt bad. lol do what feels right to u!

[Janitor3]

I'd argue that yes it is in fact gay due because your getting pressure from another man. At the same time I'd also say hey what ever floats your boat. Not my cup of tea but nothing wrong with it.

[UnknownError]

You are Curious. 8)

[coleman8r 77]

well its really not gay

[LoginLeo]

No, it's not gay.
By a mistake i Chose gay, but i think that it's not.
Curiosity.
Have fun XD

[drac]

Yes, Its a gay activity but most likely you are curious at most. If you cannot see yourself falling in love with a man and going further, you are probably not gay. "Curiosity killed the cat."

[The Dark Lord]

look at it this way, if a friend had lost both his arms and was burstiing for release and you helped him, would that be gay?

[yoda]

Not gay at all.

[CoreyOx]

Ofcourse it's gay! It's 2 men, playing with eachother. All you who said NO IT'S NOT should go learn some PSE fuckin hell. Talk about thick. But it doesn't actually mean you're gay, unless you liked it, which you infact did, but I think maybe you should experiment further to see whether you like that or not. And then you'll know when you're gay/bisexual! :) Hope I've helped

[CoreyOx]

No, it's not gay.
By a mistake i Chose gay, but i think that it's not.
Curiosity.
Have fun XD

What do you mean? :S

[connorfla]

if you liked it,it dosent matter

[Vkid]

nothing wrong with it

[Donkey]

No action defines sexual orientation, but rather personal feelings and physical/emotional sexual attractions.

[loyk]

No its nt gay he was right and it's like praticong for the real thing

[ajsdlkfjaois]

No a lot of people do this during their teenage years

[ccrunner]

It's not gay at all and he is right as long as u both are certified straight it all good

[Sosaku]

It isn't gay, although I wish a guy I knew "needed" some help lol, but no it isn't, and if it was, and you only see yourself doing that, I'm quite sure your arn't gay. Besides no one can define your sexuality other than yourself, not your actions or anything you say, just you.

[JonTyler]

Nope, your just curious. As others said, if you liked it why does it matter?

[Toothpick]

No, it is not

[Lasky]

Yeah, I would say it's gay. Not that there's anything wrong with being gay, but yeah, that is a gay activity.

[Cole321654]

no its not

[Sudds3]

Its true, only a guy knows what another guy likes! Masterbating with a guy is completely fine, at your age (ours i guess) its just experimenting to see what you like....but jacking off is commonly done even in and past college!

-Adam

[plebble]

Lol YES is the answer, I can't believe so many people put 'no' lol:D

[Marcus339]

It's only gay if you decide it's gay.

[ImCoolBeans]

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